abandoned, with a beautiful baby…and struggling
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anetatimuPrayers: 9Requests: 3
January 23, 2019 at 5:49 amthank you dear family for your prayers before.
9 weeks ago my man walked out on me & our now 5 month old baby. i am coping with Gods grace and constant prayer but i am starting to feel exhausted & overwhelmed. my man has moved down the road and gives inconsistent messages about our future together. he walks in & out of our house and our lives at his convenience, and blames everything gone wrong on me. i try at all times to give him unconditional 1 Corinthians 13 love but he gets angry with hurtful words and stonewalls me. i have been told he has a kundalini spirit attached to his life. i just feel so trapped, lost and lonely. i wish he could be loving & supportive because i am struggling on my own and he is insensitive to my needs and my pain. i am trying so hard to cling to God and give love to baby and my man but just feel so weary. please pray for all of us.PraiseHimPrayers: 1076Requests: 110
January 24, 2019 at 10:40 amI’m praying for you to find godly support from Christian women who will come alongside you and godly counsel as to how to handle this man. His coming and going as he pleases and blaming you for things is not right. I pray God will give you wisdom and protection.
Father, You hear this request and You know the situation. I give it all to You and trust You to help, lead and provide for this family. You love them. You are there. Direct this Mom to people who will care and help her stand strong and grow in You as she cares for her family. I lift them all up to You. Thank You for Your great mercy, grace and love. Give her Your peace. Protect her heart and mind. Give her lots of wisdom. Let her rest in You through it all and care for her baby well. Let her ask for help from those who can be trusted. Thank You Daddy. In Jesus’ Name I pray. Amen.
anetatimuPrayers: 9Requests: 3
January 27, 2019 at 3:28 pmThank you Janel. This is a perfect request on my behalf and I appreciate you so much. We are associated with two churches as my man left our first church just before he left our family and is currently fellowshipping with the church he rents his new house from. I have talked with both pastors and asked for their help in prayer and reconciliation, and now Im asking God for patience as His Plan unfolds. I struggle with sleep at night as I miss my man so desperately. I ask for God’s very present help in my times of acute need.
I pray for wisdom and wise counsel for both of us. I also pray that my man will be convicted of his actions and shown how to take his rightful place in our family, and in the churches we attend. That he will stop hurting us by coming and going according to his own needs, that he will become sensitive to the needs of his family and convicted to put his energy into building a strong relationship between us. Since he left my man has started experiencing leg pain and will need an operation requiring time off work. Still, he remains stubborn and will not come home nor accept the help I offer.
Lord, I know you desire families to be together, please let your Holy Spirit softten our hearts and bring us back together. Set the strong foundation you want for us and prepare us to be accepting, supportive and loving to each other. Bring wise and trustworthy Godly people to us who will support and assist our reconciliation. Send away anyone who does not recognise Your desire for unity in the family. Protect and provide for me & baby in this time of my man’s absence. Protect my heart and mind and keep me focused on Your Plan. Thank you Lord for your people and thank you for the gift of prayer. In the name of Jesus, amen.
twils1154Prayers: 3Requests: 3
January 29, 2019 at 9:52 amJust prayed for you AJ! Above all you are the bride of Christ, and He will never abandon you. Praying for your man as well, that he would come to a saving knowledge of Christ! You are God’s predestined ambassador to him, so keep doing what you’re doing as it is not in vain! Your Father sees what is done in secret and will reward you in due time!
gsimoninPrayers: 5621Requests: 43
January 29, 2019 at 12:06 pmI agree with those prayers. Father, we humbly come to You asking for Your help in this difficult situation. What this husband has done and is doing is wrong. Use his leg pain to get his attention and increase his desire to return to You with humility and repentance.
Help AJ turn to Christian women and ask for and receive the support and help she needs. I am so grateful that you have already turned to the pastors of the two churches. Get all the help you can. You don’t have to go it alone. Maybe even ask the pastors if there is a Christian counselor who can help guide you through the steps to not allowing yourself to be abused. You deserve the best. And if you have sinned, you can take that to the Lord and ask forgiveness. My first knee jerk reaction to what you wrote was: change the locks on your house. But — ask your pastor, or counselor first. Peace, rest, calm, clarity to you, sister.
anetatimuPrayers: 9Requests: 3
January 31, 2019 at 6:19 amthank you so much family for your prayers. I have found a woman in our church family who has made herself available to encourage and support me with Godly wisdom, now i no longer feel alone.
my man has chosen not to see me & baby in 3 days. just now he has text me with (unfounded) jealous thoughts and saying he wants us to finish. please pray against the spirit within him that prompts and supports his continued separation from us. i do not want this and i have offered him help in various ways, all of which he has rejected. this is not the man i first met. i feel like this is my last chance to claim him back from whatever has taken him away from us. thank you for standing with me. -
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