DAB Family I desperately need your help
Frances MPrayers: 205Requests: 31
September 10, 2020 at 10:21 pm
It’s been a while since I last posted and I desperately need your prayers. My doctor has suddenly decided to cut my pain medication even though I have very little chance of getting better and even less if he cuts my pain medication. I can barely make it to my doctor appointments. He constantly berates me and has even questioned why I wear a holy medal on my neck. He picked it up and look at it and said “ I would never believe in God after all you have been though, you and your husband have suffered so much” and dropped it on my neck. I was speechless and told him he has no right to question my religious beliefs. He just shrugged his shoulders and said “whatever”. He even told me to report him, they won’t do a thing. There are too many incidents to name, he has even encouraged me to end things.
He is calling me tomorrow. Please, please pray he has a change of heart. My husband and I are both very ill and I’ve already lost a friend and family member to the Caronavirus. He told me to risk it and wear a mask. I am too ill to drive and my husband is recovering from cancer. He is in pain and beyond exhausted. Yes the doctor is aware. He also wants me to look for a new doctor and go into the pain clinic at the hospital. He has sent in a referral to the clinic and the people at the pain clinic told me the wait cud be 1-1/2 to 2 years. He also wants me to find a new family doctor but has never supplied me with a list of physicians. I have called over 15 physicians and the minimum wait is 6 months or longer and then they do an assessment to see if they will take you on as a patient.
Please pray for us. I have tried everything ( I live in Canada). I need him to have a change of heart. He is playing with our lives. The pain in unendurable but in a pandemic? It makes no sense. He said he does not care. My husband has begged him not to do this, but he has refused.
Please pray god will soften his heart and he will see the error of his ways. I am afraid. I know I’m supposed to trust god, but the meds have already been cut. I feel so alone. I’m trying to have faith and stay strong but it’s very hard when you are so ill and your doctor dismisses your belief in God.
Thank you, god bless you all.missmena2Prayers: 65Requests: 7
September 11, 2020 at 3:40 am
Heavenly Father we come before you Lord lifting this couple up to you Lord. Lord you know their situation, you know their need and their every hearts desire. Lord you word says for those who wait upon you Lord, will be renewed in strength. They will soar on wings like eagles, they will not grow weary. Heavenly Father I pray for healing and restoration. I pray that you move in the heart of this doctor to be awakened to who you are and to move forward compassionately. Lord I pray that your perfect will be done in this sitUation, that Lord you guide this couple through whatever you have in store ahead of thrm. Carry them, heal them, m, bring peace to this situation. And more than anything let the co fort of your love overtake them in healing and grave. In Jesus name.frankopoy68Prayers: 1235Requests: 13
September 11, 2020 at 4:39 am
Dear Lord may you be known in so many ways in this situation this family is in. Please provide a way in all of their needs. Open up the doors of opportunity for them. We pray for this lost doctor that your spirit will change his heart. In the loving name of our Lord Jesus Christ we pray.tnpmdlkmgPrayers: 70Requests: 12
September 11, 2020 at 4:49 am
psalm 121:5-8 The Lord is your keeper; the Lord is your shade on your right hand. The sun shall night strike you by day; nor the moon by night. The Lord will keep you from all evil; He will keep your life. The Lord will keep your going out and your coming in from this time forth and forevermore.
Eph. 6:10-18. Put on the full armor of God.
The Lord is your keeper and He has given you complete armor. You are are safe with Him. Amengracefulmanus06Prayers: 3Requests: 0
September 11, 2020 at 11:21 am
I am so sorry I pray that God will soften his heart and will help you through this praying for yougsimoninPrayers: 5131Requests: 33
September 11, 2020 at 12:14 pm
Lord, we pray for You to intervene in this most desperate situation for this couple. In my opinion, this man should not be allowed to practice medicine! Have Your way with him, Lord.sparrowPrayers: 2079Requests: 4
September 11, 2020 at 8:35 pm
Father in heaven, I pray for help for this couple. Will you open doors for relief for them. May blessings pour down from heaven. Give them strength, and wisdom, and courage. Send healing to their bodies, minds and spirits. Fill their mouths with praise to you. Father, I pray this doctor may come to know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. Help this couple forgive his terrible attitude and treatment of them. This system they are stuck in is so broken. Their eyes are on you. Embrace them and send your comfort. In Jesus namesalvationpeaksPrayers: 390Requests: 27
September 12, 2020 at 9:49 am
He needs to reported to police and the authorities. Have you anyone who who assist you in this?salvationpeaksPrayers: 390Requests: 27
September 12, 2020 at 10:05 am
Frances m. Command the pain to go in Jesus name. I will be praying for you too. As a believer you have the authority to do what Jesus did, yes on yourself. Trust in Him. Can I ask what medal it is? If its anything other than a cross I would stop wearing it, as we are to follow and speak to Jesus only. God bless. 🙏goingupsoonPrayers: 1680Requests: 55
September 12, 2020 at 2:07 pm
Father, lifting this couple to you. They are experiencing persecution from their Doctor, by him with a mocking attitude, questioning their beliefs. Jesus said to rejoice when men revile you, persecute you, and say all manner of evil, against you for my names sake. Help them to lift up a “shout of thanks giving” for being counted worthy, to be able to suffer persecution for the cause of the gospel. As hard as it is to do Lord, give them the grace in this matter.
We pray that Holy Spirit would work on this mans heart. And move him to through conviction, to see that he needs the Savior. Lord, we ask that the personal medical needs of this couple be met. Either by their present Doctor having a change of heart. Or by them being able to find a new provider. Father bless! this couple with healing. So they aren’t dependent on the medical field to manage their physical problems. We speak life over them. and declare that by the stripes, wounds and bruises that Jesus bore, they are healed! The price has been paid the victory has been won! Healing is their covenant right. We command it to be so!
In JESUS NAME! AMEN!
Beloved 💓srekemeier1Prayers: 153Requests: 18
September 12, 2020 at 9:24 pm
Dear fellow DABer I pray that God will direct you to the proper authorities who can address your situation. Your doctor seems to be a danger to not only you but to others and yes he should be reported. I am not familiar with the Canadian health system as I know it is much different than here in the US. but are there no Urgent care or walk in clinics you can go to in such an emergency situation? I am praying for you both. God be with you to guide you and bring you relief.dorothysanoPrayers: 251Requests: 25
September 12, 2020 at 10:23 pm
Hi Frances, Can you find a new doctor cia TeleMedicine? Is the pain clinic and waiting 6 months your only options? I pray God meets your and your husband’s medical needs.Frances MPrayers: 205Requests: 31
September 15, 2020 at 9:27 am
Hello DAB Family! I have read each and every one of your prayers and I am so very thankful. I have taken your advice to heart and made some calls. Yesterday I received a call from a patient advocate. She provided me with a great deal of information and encouraged me to write to my doctor again. I am now awaiting an email from him but nothing so far.. I will fill you in as soon as I hear more.
Please continue to pray for us. Pray God intervenes in his life and removes the darkness and anger that consumes him, that he sees there is another direction, a life filled with love and light. Pray he helps him to see the error of his ways and that he contacts us today.
The stress is making us very ill, we have hardly slept or eaten in the last few days. We are trying so hard to be strong and not to give into the fear, but I confess sometimes it is almost impossible. I am also struggling right now, trying to forgive this man who is putting our lives at risk, to forgive this man who has hurt me very deeply. Pray I can move on and remove the heaviness in my heart.
Thank you again DAB family. I ask God to bless you all with good health and keep you safe. To fill your lives with joy and love.
FrancesBlessed By Jesus in KCPrayers: 7Requests: 0
September 15, 2020 at 10:15 pm
I am lifting you up tonight in prayer.salvationpeaksPrayers: 390Requests: 27
September 16, 2020 at 2:47 pm
Bless you Frances. If you would like prayer on phone I’m available on WhatsApp. Jackie Davison. And zoom 🙏km508Prayers: 25Requests: 2
September 16, 2020 at 8:47 pm
Frances’ pain – WE rebuke you! In the Name of Jesus Christ, the ultimate healer and restorer you are healed. Receive this healing in Jesus’ holy name. AMENFrances MPrayers: 205Requests: 31
September 18, 2020 at 6:49 am
Hello once again DAB family. I’ve spoke with the patient advocate again. I informed her my doctor never contacted me. She took down some more information and said she would call him today. I’m not sure if she was able to reach him or if he is not taking her calls because I did not hear back from her today. Please continue to pray he has a change of heart or we find a compassionate loving doctor who will care us. I’m
no nevous I’m actually shaking as I write this. I have a terrible feeling he will lie, but as the patient advocate said. I need a rational rreason, but there is none. I also need to see where and when he informed you in writing.
Please pray this gets resolved soon. My husband is unwell and in pain today because of this and we have no one to call. Please pray God will watch over us and calm our fears so we can breathe. Every minute feels like a day.
FranceskadohertyPrayers: 6Requests: 2
September 18, 2020 at 11:12 pm
Lord God your might is beyond measure please show your awesome power and humble this Dr. so he may know in his heart and mind that you are the Lord of Lords… and your power is absolute and you will protect those who put their faith in you against those who persecute your flock. I pray in Jesus name AmendocsollyPrayers: 134Requests: 56
September 18, 2020 at 11:52 pm
Dear Frances, if your doctor wants to leave, let him leave. God’s arm is not shortened, he can provide you with a new and better one. I pray that he give you a trillion times a better doctor immediately. Be blessed sister. Father please heal Frances and her husband. I pray that they be in the pink of health.goingupsoonPrayers: 1680Requests: 55
September 19, 2020 at 2:40 am
Father, open the doors that no man can shut. Give Frances M and her husband favor we pray. There is no reason that they can’t find a Doctor that can treat them. And treat them with respect.
16. He defended the cause of the afflicted and needy; Then all was well,
Is that not what it means to know Me? Says the Lord. Je. 22:16.
Thank you Lord that we have the petitions that we desire of You,
In Jesus name. Amen!
BelovedpattysyellowbusPrayers: 2344Requests: 18
September 19, 2020 at 4:50 am
Amen! Praying for you dear Frances and Your husband!!! May Abba Father intervene and heal you both in the mighty Name of Jesus!! We turn to You O Great Physician and ask You to fill Frances and her husband to overflowing! We ask for Your Peace, Your Wisdom, Your divine revelation as they look to You. Touch this doctor’s heart that he too, may come to know You through the power of the Holy Spirit – the seeds planted by Frances. We seek You O Lord, to do a new thing in this situation!! Pour Your love on Frances and her husband this hour!!
Praise Your Name!Frances MPrayers: 205Requests: 31
September 19, 2020 at 5:30 am
Hello Dab Family. It’s official, I no longer have a family doctor. The patient advocate spoke with my doctor and he lied about so many things I don’t know where to begin, except to say he said I missed an appointment. When I asked her if he had a copy of the appointment I missed, a date, an email or even the date of the phone call he made,?she said nothing. He also said the pain clinic had accepted his request to treat me, which is completely false. They received his referral and never got in touch with me until I called them. I am on the waiting list and it cud take up to 2 years. She did not say a word to me, when I said that. He also said he wrote to me and told me he would be dropping me as a patient. When I asked her if she asked for a copy of the letter she would not answer me. I asked for the date, again nothing. She took him at his word and he still does not have a rational clinical reason for dropping me. If I was such a terrible patient why are there no complaints? No letters? Why did he continue to treat me? She kept saying remember I said “he should do all of these things“, not “he had to do them“. When I asked the advocate what I should do now she told me I could lodge a complaint. The investigation could take months however he still can do as he pleases. I asked her where do I go now, what do I do? She is now also telling me to go to a same hospital he recommended that has a massive Covid outbreak. They won’t even let me in the door. They are also not accepting new patients in the pain clinic. She just kept ignoring my plea for help. I asked her if she could help me find a new physician, she said she could not.
I was so hopeful and now I feel so defeated, and then the fear strikes again. I know too many pain patients who have no life, they just lie in bed and cry because the pain is so bad. Whether it’s a spine crushed in a car accident, or a rare painful illness that take your breathe away every second of the day you will likely wait and sometimes it comes too late.
Unless you are clinically or terminally ill it’s difficult to understand the system. I know I didn’t until I was there. Yes sometimes you get lucky and receive treatment quickly, but mostly you wait. I used to thinkn of course you get treated right away, they can’t just leave you in pain for years, well I was wrong. I thought of course everyone will help you and they understand your pain, they are in this business to help people. Well some are, and some are not. Then there are the shortages of doctors and pain clinics. No you can’t walk into any clinic and get pain medication. There are very strict rules and protocols. Unfortunately it’s the same in the U.S., I know a few nurses who work at the pain clinics. People are turned away every day. Also pray you have the money or the best insurance coverage. Our medication is not free here either. Once you leave the hospital you’re on your own. We pay our employer or get private insurance .
Please continue to pray for us. As you can see today is not a good day. I have been up all night again watching my husband sleep. I touch his face and the tears start to fall. I’m trying to put on a brave face, not to wake him, he is beyond exhausted. I keep praying that God wants us to have a better life and finally get the care we need. I had a physician who was an angel from God before all of this. I just assumed everyone was the same way. I am worried. I know I’m not supposed to be afraid but it’s very hard when you’re both sick and in pain. Very sorry for the rambling.
Thank you my friends for listening to me. It is our 30th wedding Anniversary today. We are so grateful to have each other, but very sad because of all the stress and pain.
I love you all. Please stay well.
FrancesmbndhaszPrayers: 6Requests: 1
September 19, 2020 at 6:27 am
I’m praying for you both. Lord Jesus! I cry out for your mercy on this couple. Please please grant them wisdom, hope, and encouragement today. IN JESUS NAME!!! TEXAS MaryFrances MPrayers: 205Requests: 31
September 22, 2020 at 8:01 am
Hello DAB Family. I’ve had two calls from doctors that might look hopeful. They won’t be not be for a few months and even then they can refuse me, but it is something to be hopeful for so please continue to pray for us.
Another issue has arisen out of the blue. Something so unexpected and we are so worried. Please ask God to get us through this and that it is resolved very quickly.
I love you all.
God bless!gsimoninPrayers: 5131Requests: 33
September 22, 2020 at 11:55 am
O Lord, we stand and cry out to You on behalf of our sister, Frances, and her dear husband. We REBUKE the pain in their bodies and ask for Your healing touch. Give them encouragement today, Lord. Resolve this new issue that has come up, resolve it easily. Give them wisdom to know what is their next right step. Blessings
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