For my wife not to feel that I make her life miserable
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oscar.ramirez.iiiPrayers: 0Requests: 1
November 26, 2019 at 4:39 pmMy wife and I have been having some issues for quite a while. We are in the process of buying our first home and we are driving down to Atlanta from upstate New York with our six month old. At this point my wife keeps telling me that I am ruining everything that she found fun before. She used to love traveling but she said that I have ruined that for her. She keeps calling me a narcissistic sociopath even though in my heart of hearts I don’t feel that this is true. I just don’t know what to do to make her feel loved. We’re now have a 18 hour trip in front of us and it has not gotten off to a great start. I don’t even know what prayer to ask for. It just feels so hopeless with my marriage. My wife keeps telling me that she’s done with me. I just want her to be happy and to feel appreciated, cared for, and loved. I don’t know what to do. On top of everything out son is teething which is causing a little extra stress to both of us. Lord, please help us! I know that You can use everything for good for those who love You. Father, please be our refuge right now. Help us so Your Holy Spirit will be evident in our communications with each other, that Your love may shine brightly with us.
His Messenger in upstate New York
hideko.1Prayers: 1Requests: 0
November 26, 2019 at 5:22 pmPraying for you and your wife. Don’t try too hard, but leave it to God. Driving so long with a small one is already stressful. Sometimes we just need a quietness and let it be. God knows your heart and he will make everything come together. Have a safe trip!
ItsdanisePrayers: 22Requests: 2
November 26, 2019 at 11:50 pmHis Messenger, I’ve been praying for your marriage for quite some time even though I didn’t know what your issue was. I just discovered my husband has intimacy anorexia and I encourage you to complete the checklist to see if your wife might also suffer from that. It helps knowing what you’re dealing with. Check out Heart to Heart clinic in Colorado Springs, Co. I’ll keep praying for you brother. Married and Alone
michelletorsleffPrayers: 5Requests: 2
November 27, 2019 at 3:37 pmOscar I will keep you and wife and baby in prayer. Stay stable for your wife, she may be experiencing these feelings like many woman do after delivering a child even months later. Stay the rock, she depends on it more than you will know. Keeping doing the small things with love. Reasure her verbally you love her, and you are going to fight for her and your family. Love. Love. Love Easy way out is to walk away, but NO you are staying and Loving her and your baby. God knows exactly where you are, stay in prayer.
davis3222shirley1Prayers: 686Requests: 2
November 27, 2019 at 5:41 pmFather in heaven, I pray for healing in this marriage. Give Oscar patience to persevere, quietness, wisdom from above. We cover this wife with the blood of Jesus. We shield her from the lies of the enemy. Bless this marriage with a breakthrough. In Jesus name
skyeheart9Prayers: 4Requests: 5
November 28, 2019 at 8:23 pmRemember Job, his wife told him “curse God and die.” Later the Lord gave back much more than he had before. Immanuel Amen
zeal4_christPrayers: 1Requests: 0
November 29, 2019 at 6:02 pmThat’s so hard! Could it be postnatal depression? She might just need to be heard and held to validate what she’s going through is hard but she’s doing an amazing job. She probably used to feel in control and now she doesn’t. So if she can blame someone or something else she has a sense of control. Unfortunately it’s often the ones most important to us that cop it. My mom was like that to my dad. It was heartbreaking but my dad’s constant love and patience meant we had a stable and happy childhood. My mom was amazing too and was the best mom for me but could’ve been a better wife. Unfortunately she took too much upon herself. Find out what’s stressing her out without defensiveness or trying to offer suggestions. Just listen to her and recognise how it makes her feel. She may be hurtful towards you but it’s because she’s hurting and doesn’t know why so it becomes easy to blame someone else. I’d pray for my parent’s marriage. It took a cancer scare to bring mom to her knees. She physically wasn’t able to do the things she thought she needed to do to support the family. It’s then she realised she was supported. She became gracious, loving and peaceful. She truly appreciated dad. Just the years leading up to it she was really stressed and not coping. She wasn’t able to look after herself and was looking for a divorce to regain control. She passed away knowing the truth, she was enough, she was loved and appreciated. Our family was saved. I learnt from her mistakes and now have a healthy marriage myself (although I’m sure having kids will create new challenges we’re better at communicating at least). My story won’t be your story, but my God is your God and so is the hope He brings when we trust Him, listen to Him and pray it will be 🙂 Phil 4:6,7 1 Jn 4:18 💕
calee58Prayers: 1Requests: 2
November 29, 2019 at 8:09 pmFirst and foremost is to be receptive to the Holy Spirit to reveal to you anything in your marriage that is pressing…(even without your knowledge.). Only He can show you. … Until then, Love is greater than all.
CamPrayers: 7Requests: 5
November 29, 2019 at 11:56 pmI love you brother. I know your pain too well. Keep loving your wife and being her rock. Others have said this, but she may be going through an imbalance that is causing her to feel this way. She will need your strength and prayers to pull her through. I’m praying for you. Keep praying here on the wall no matter what. Don’t feel like you’re asking too much.
deborahknight20Prayers: 6Requests: 1
November 30, 2019 at 2:02 amYou are wasting your time as she does not love you. This comes from someone who has spent the last 30 years rearing children alone. Focus on your relationship with God and back off from her. Stop trying. God is a far better companion than a human. I sound harsh but I speak from experience. Focus on praising Him.
felixculpa723Prayers: 1497Requests: 6
December 2, 2019 at 10:31 pmHeavenly Father, I that your Holy Spirit will fall upon this home and restore peace and harmony between this couple. I confess that i am without words and wisdom to add to this prayer. I must submit my prayers to the Holy Spirit for his leadership because this relationship is complex and in need of your anointing and intervention. I earnestly ask you for a calm environment in this home after this trip to allow this couple to communicate with each other in a way anchored by a common faith in you. I pray that your love will overwhelm this couple, and cause this home to be reconciled with you. Bathe this home in your love , and place a hedge of protection around this home and this couple so that the enemy can be banished from this home and have no foothold in this relationship. Father, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray against the dissolution of this marriage. Let our community buttress this home with our prayers and stand for a healing of this marriage and the reconciliation of this couple.
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