His Messenger, I’ve been praying for your marriage for quite some time even though I didn’t know what your issue was. I just discovered my husband has intimacy anorexia and I encourage you to complete the checklist to see if your wife might also suffer from that. It helps knowing what you’re dealing with. Check out Heart to Heart clinic in Colorado Springs, Co. I’ll keep praying for you brother. Married and Alone

Father in heaven, I pray for healing in this marriage. Give Oscar patience to persevere, quietness, wisdom from above. We cover this wife with the blood of Jesus. We shield her from the lies of the enemy. Bless this marriage with a breakthrough. In Jesus name

That’s so hard! Could it be postnatal depression? She might just need to be heard and held to validate what she’s going through is hard but she’s doing an amazing job. She probably used to feel in control and now she doesn’t. So if she can blame someone or something else she has a sense of control. Unfortunately it’s often the ones most important to us that cop it. My mom was like that to my dad. It was heartbreaking but my dad’s constant love and patience meant we had a stable and happy childhood. My mom was amazing too and was the best mom for me but could’ve been a better wife. Unfortunately she took too much upon herself. Find out what’s stressing her out without defensiveness or trying to offer suggestions. Just listen to her and recognise how it makes her feel. She may be hurtful towards you but it’s because she’s hurting and doesn’t know why so it becomes easy to blame someone else. I’d pray for my parent’s marriage. It took a cancer scare to bring mom to her knees. She physically wasn’t able to do the things she thought she needed to do to support the family. It’s then she realised she was supported. She became gracious, loving and peaceful. She truly appreciated dad. Just the years leading up to it she was really stressed and not coping. She wasn’t able to look after herself and was looking for a divorce to regain control. She passed away knowing the truth, she was enough, she was loved and appreciated. Our family was saved. I learnt from her mistakes and now have a healthy marriage myself (although I’m sure having kids will create new challenges we’re better at communicating at least). My story won’t be your story, but my God is your God and so is the hope He brings when we trust Him, listen to Him and pray it will be 🙂 Phil 4:6,7 1 Jn 4:18 💕

I love you brother. I know your pain too well. Keep loving your wife and being her rock. Others have said this, but she may be going through an imbalance that is causing her to feel this way. She will need your strength and prayers to pull her through. I’m praying for you. Keep praying here on the wall no matter what. Don’t feel like you’re asking too much.

Heavenly Father, I that your Holy Spirit will fall upon this home and restore peace and harmony between this couple. I confess that i am without words and wisdom to add to this prayer. I must submit my prayers to the Holy Spirit for his leadership because this relationship is complex and in need of your anointing and intervention. I earnestly ask you for a calm environment in this home after this trip to allow this couple to communicate with each other in a way anchored by a common faith in you. I pray that your love will overwhelm this couple, and cause this home to be reconciled with you. Bathe this home in your love , and place a hedge of protection around this home and this couple so that the enemy can be banished from this home and have no foothold in this relationship. Father, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray against the dissolution of this marriage. Let our community buttress this home with our prayers and stand for a healing of this marriage and the reconciliation of this couple.