I have been ill for most of my life. The pain is horrible. It gets worse by the day. We need financial help. We also just found out my husband has cancer. We have not had a break it over 10 years. When I asked my family for help, they told me I was lying. I have been hospitalized many times, but they would not come to the hospital. How can this be? They said it would be a good lesson for us to lose our home, even though we helped them all financially. None of them talk to us anymore, but my sister called me to tell me they laugh at our pain and financial problems over dinner.