To my sister in Christ,
May the words you wrote speak the truth of your soul and the voice of the Lord. May you see the answer in your own statement: …but when we’re not together I have doubts! The Lord and His best for His beloved children do not bring forth doubt in whether this person is His best for us. Instead, we want to be with them because we are better with them than without them in our lives. We dance in harmony together in mutual honor, respect and have that, I know he/she has my best interest in mind no matter the circumstance(s), joys and eventual hardships (all relationships have them) that may come our way. And to that, perhaps you could look within and ask yourself the following questions. Is he the personification of God’s very best for me? If so, why? If not, why not? As a woman who knows God’s best and also knows and has experienced the very same feelings you expressed, doubts for me were God’s gracious hedgerow of protection. My prayers for you go from my heart, soul and spirit to you. Be blessed and know you are dearly loved by those who pray.
Lauren

Dear friend, I can understand exactly how you feel and your concerns. Please pray pray pray to God about this and try hard to see all of Gods signs that he sends to you. God speaks to us daily, it is up to us to listen. Trust you heart and your intuitions. May God be with you, amen

Amen…to Laura , your post was what I was going to post. Yes, God reveals his answers for us in many ways…God bless you Tracy stay strong!

My dear sister this man seems to say the right things but acts out differently, the Lord said that by their fruit you shall know them. If you find yourself sinning more since being with this man that doesn’t seem Godly at all. I pray that you’ll take action to protect your soul, flee from any compromise it will destroy you. The Lord knows us better than we know ourselves and he knows who is best for us. Trust the Lord, let him lead you. 🙏🏽💗🙏🏽💗🙏🏽💗

Thank you soooo much, he says he looks forward to hearing from you my friend. God bless you

Continuing to pray for wisdom and obedience to You alone, Lord.

Tracy I am praying you will listen to the Council of the wise. Laurens response is wise. take your time and appreciate the fact that you have Jesus as your husband. take it from someone who did not heed the signs. I am on the other side and wish I could go back to where you are. Jesus I have asked. You many times to help me warn women to patiently wait for your choice before marrying. I know you love my husband, but I also know that I what’s better off without him and she was not your first choice for me. I pray that this sister will work better in faith then I did, and wait for your perfect will for her and not settle for your allowed will. in Jesus’ mighty name, amen!

Dear Sister in Christ Tracy,
My heart smiled as I read your thoughts in reply. Truly smiled when I read, I have been so blessed this last year having God as my husband, he told me that I have a pure example of what a husband would be, this man is far from that! What an incredible encouragement to those who wait upon the Lord for his best. You are very wise and I am so proud of you for taking a step back, reviewing the landscape of your relationship and life, and seeing God’s provision. If you ever want to reach out to me you can email me at: Heart.Hiccups@outlook.com
Blessings,
Lauren

Here’s a link from Focus On The Family about preparing for marriage:
https://www.boundless.org/relationships/what-he-must-be-if-he-wants-to-marry-my-daughter-a-review/

They have additional articles to read or listen to. Blessings

Continuing to pray…
Sister: I’ve found the best way to avoid temptation is to not put myself in a position where it is easy to sin. For you that might mean not being alone with him in a private place. Pray on this. Blessings

Sweet Tracy, if there are doubts, that speaks volumes. Father God, I pray for Tracy to listen to You Holy Spirit. Please guide her in Truth. Please show her how to guard her heart. A forever friend in Florida