Marriage slump due to controlling husband
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August 2, 2020 at 8:18 pm
Please pray for my husband, he’s the nicest, well respected man, in the public eye. Behind closed doors he has controlling habits, and it’s getting worse. He does not see this. I’m beginning to resent him. I do not want a divorce, I would love to find joy again. There is also a unspoken wedge between his mother and myself (due to religious beliefs) as well as a grudge he holds against my father. The combination of these things is making me feel so defeated. I’m asking for prayers to help find joy in each other’s company. Asking the Lord to please open our eyes to doing the right things for each other in our marriage and guiding us on the right paths to fulfill His will.goingupsoonPrayers: 1640Requests: 55
August 2, 2020 at 9:30 pm
Yes Lord, we stand with denakels. and ask that the strongholds that have been built, in her husbands thinking. Be brought down. Praying that for whatever the reasons are that have caused him to control his wife behind closed doors. That the Spirit of God, would open his eyes to what he is doing. And bring conviction, to the point that he will see his need to change.
We come against the divisive spirit that would bring strife into their marriage. And command it to cease it’s destructive work. In Jesus name! Father, we ask that You create such an atmosphere of mutual respect, and chaireshing love between the two of them. That the enemy won’t be able to find a foothold again. Bring wisdom, two both of them. so they will recognize when it is the enemy attempting to worm his way into their marriage. There may be the need for forgiveness to take place, before peace can be restored. Un forgiveness, is a open door to the enemy. Help them to see anywhere they have left a door open for the enemy to sneak in. And help them to walk in love with one another, staying in our love walk, is a sure way to prevent strife from entering into our marriage.
Lord, heal the inner family relationships. There again bring wisdom that will lead them into a place of shalom, and true peace. A place void of strife, and every evil work.
Thanking You Lord for reaching into this marriage, and making it whole once again. You deserve all the glory! And all the praise!
Asking in the name of Yeshua. Amen!
💓DeebeegeePrayers: 18Requests: 41
August 2, 2020 at 10:15 pm
Jesus move in tonight in a way to reach inside this marriage that is struggling because of the enemy needs to be put in his place threw you ABBA Father. You gave your son to die so we can trust you .I know what behind closed doors is like Move in there lives .Pray changes things trust your father .In Jesus Name Amen . Not the best yet at prayer but I’m praying Amen .goingupsoonPrayers: 1640Requests: 55
August 2, 2020 at 10:26 pm
Lord bless! you Denise, you pray beautifully💓MadeNewPrayers: 87Requests: 20
August 3, 2020 at 4:31 am
@Denise, it’s not the words but the heart attitude and the power of God. When we lift up out hearts in prayer, the Lord sees our motives, our intentions, our attitudes – He sees perfectly – regardless of how the words come out. Please don’t stop praying or feel your prayers are inadequate.
To volunteer at a women’s abuse shelter I had to attend a long training course, I learned that all forms of abuse come from the perceived need of someone to control another, the ability to have authority over, to be exalted over, to keep someone under their control. I also learned that one in three (33%) of all women are involved in some type of abusive relationship. It’s a huge problem, and such a terrible one.
Lord, I come alongside those who are in agreement as we lift ‘denakels’ up to You in prayer. Please bring healing and restoration to this marraige, through Your Holy Spirit cause the truth to be seen, confronted and corrected that this relationship can be a healthy one in love and bring glory to Your name. Amen.salvationpeaksPrayers: 389Requests: 27
August 4, 2020 at 3:50 am
Lord I ask that you come into this couples life and heal restore them to you and each other. May they fi d joy, hope and love again in each other. Amen. ❤️Good Soil for SeedPrayers: 4Requests: 0
August 4, 2020 at 4:16 am
Mighty Father, Thank you for all your blessings. Look to this couple Father and forgive them. Love them, bless them and heal them, lord. Grant them peace and eternal life, Lord. Thank you Father. In Jesus’ name, amengsimoninPrayers: 5114Requests: 33
August 4, 2020 at 11:28 am
Standing in agreement with these prayers for our sister, denakels, and her family. Lord, You know all the details of what’s going on in their family. It does not sound good. Give our sister wisdom to know what is her next right step. Certainly asking for prayer is a beginning. Lord, restore the love in this family, help them set aside grudges, wedges, and controlling behavior.
Sister – Pray for wisdom to know what you should do. For myself dealing with a controlling personality in my home, he rarely listens to my words. The only thing that seems to get his attention are my actions: stop cooking him dinner, stop doing his laundry, stop spending time with him. These have been done, not to punish, but rather to get his attention to understand that his words and actions are not okay. God will guide you. BlessingspattysyellowbusPrayers: 2340Requests: 18
August 5, 2020 at 6:17 am
Amen. Praying in agreement. Abba Father! We lift up this marriage to You for healing. Break the bonds over denakels husband’s thought process – may he develop a hunger for Your Word. May he be healed by the power of Love and find that he does not need to control. Lord Jesus, we ask for Your intervention as steps are taken to bring healing to this marriage. Give Your wisdom. I Praise You Lord, for healing my marriage and bringing about great change, step by step, precept upon precept, line by line. Thank You, Lord, for the journey as it has not been easy but I’ve always known You are There. Glory to Your Name!!!gsimoninPrayers: 5114Requests: 33
August 5, 2020 at 11:26 am
Lord, whatever is the underlying issue – perhaps fear – that fuels this controlling behavior, touch that spot and bring healing. BlessingsthrocktherocketPrayers: 2Requests: 0
August 10, 2020 at 10:46 am
Hey….I’m praying for your breaking heart today 💔. I believe you are expecting verbal abuse. He is insecure and yes it will probably get worse. He may be a narcissist on some level. Know this is not your fault. You are NOT responsible for his feelings etc. He is. You will never be able to make sense out of non-sense , nor can you change him.. So crab you favorite cup of tea/coffee get alone on walk or perch your self up with a nice view and breath in some fresh God air and listen to what your Heavenly Fatger who loves you & what He is telling you. What your physically feel! Visit flyingfreenow.com and do the free book (“Is it Me”)and the free workbook chapters there. AMAZING.
I’ll bet you know the truth deep inside but denal is holding you down from a very near freedom. “Boundaries in Marriage”, by Cloud/Townsend and the “Emotionally Destructive Marriage” by Lesslie Vernick great resources. You need to listen to your self your sense of self is slowly being eroded. You are not alone, you are loved, fearfully, beautifully made, deserving of love and have hope of a bright future-Amen!!
Feel free give me a shout out (907)575-two4one2 I’m here to lend my ear. Hugs to you!
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