My husband of 30 years left me
deborahclavettePrayers: 1Requests: 1
December 31, 2018 at 1:12 pm
I’m grateful to have been pointed in the direction of this community by a friend of mine. My husband of 30 years abandoned me for another woman in March, leaving me stunned beyond words. I thought we had a beautiful (not perfect but precious) covenant commitment to each other that had weathered the raising of two boys, prison ministry, promise keepers leadership, and so much more. I was stunned — but God was not. I am praying that the beginning of 2019 will bring resolution to the sad divorce proceedings, and an opportunity for me to live the remainder of my days in a way that will honor my Savior, in fresh consecration and devotion to His will and purpose for my life, apart from the man I thought to be my life partner. I await a glorious unfolding, a resurrection after death, and joy that surpasses grief. Thank you.janel.holadayPrayers: 1026Requests: 104
December 31, 2018 at 4:58 pm
Hi Deborah! I’m happy to hear you found DAB. I wish I could give you a BIG hug!! Our Father loves you and has good plans for you! You are Hus beloved. He is not ok with the way you’ve been treated. May He have mercy in your husband and the woman. We wouldn’t want to be them. Daddy, keep us from entertaining evil, being blind and walking into a snare. Guard our hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Thank You for Deborah and her post. Fill her with Your Holy Spirit. She sounds like she’s totally on track. Praise You! Keep her grounded in Your Word and walking by faith with great expectations for a fun filled, purposeful journey. You teach me to hold onto You and not anything else. You give and You take away. Things we’d like to last forever don’t. You are forever. Love is forever. There are other things, too. May our firm foundation be on Jesus the lover of our souls. We are the bride of Christ, spotless, holy and pure! We will focus on that and on being about our Fathers business! Yippee!!! So exciting!! You are Deborah’s strength and she will be strong in Your mighty power today and in the days ahead. You will lead her. She will follow You with her head held high. She is loved and cherished by You. That is all we really need. You provide. I thank You and bless You! Encourage and empower my sister by Your Spirit! Use her mightily! She is free to serve You! Do awesome things through her surrendered heart and obedience. Yes!! I pray in Jesus’ Name. Amen and amen!
Peace to you, my sister. Again, thank you for posting on this wall. You are an encouragement and inspiration to me. Your beauty shines bright!! Happy New Years Eve!! The BEST is yet to come!!
Janeldlponder2005Prayers: 221Requests: 27
December 31, 2018 at 6:05 pm
Father, Hallowed be thy Name.
I am in agreement with my sister in Christ, Janel.
“My cup runneth over.”
Father Thank You for my sister, Deborah!!!
Thank You, Father, that my sister is speaking on her lips, to You, every moment, the Truth, that You are teaching, in her heart, speaking “to You,” seeking You, knowing You are on the thrown and in first place, not the circumstances of this world, and finding You, in this action, by Faith, Growing, Oh God.
Again and again, Thank You, Father, for You are in control, and I speak this Truth to You, not worrying, connected, to my Sister Deborah, by Your Love, knowing, believing, she has spoken, her heart, right here, today, to the body of Christ, to her brother Daniel, and our sister Janel.
(“I’m grateful to have been pointed in the direction of this community by a friend of mine.”)
Father Thank You that what You have in store for my sister, blessings with her name, Deborah, on them, is above and beyond more than I can think or imagine GOOD, all the long days You have already promised her, as the child of God she is, today.
Deborah, speak to HIM, that You receive the blessings, right now and every moment You wake, with the breath He Gave You, exactly at the right time, according to His purpose, knowing in expectancy, the blessings are already Yours, my sister.
Father, I know that this moment, right now, and every moment we ask You into with us, today, IS Your Perfect Will, LIVING inside us, right now, and that in Your Living Word, “All is Well.”
Father, Thank You for PEACE that surpasses all understanding, right in front of my sister, Deborah, stepping forward, with us, her Family, forever, forward, in His Name, the LIVING Word of God.
(“and an opportunity for me to live the remainder of my days in a way that will honor my Savior, in fresh consecration and devotion to His will and purpose for my life,”)
In Jesus Name. AmenJoanee7Prayers: 10Requests: 3
January 1, 2019 at 9:29 am
Deborah, dear one,
You will be in my prayers.wjhayes2Prayers: 19Requests: 6
January 1, 2019 at 10:27 am
Heavenly Father, I pray for Deborah to give her the strength and courage to endure the separation of two souls put together by You. Let no man or woman take this apart for their are consequences of these actions. May Christ, who lives in you be your guiding light to peace and rest within your heart. May the Lord continue to show you favor and the direction for the paths you are taking and are going to take in the future.
Your situation, Deborah is almost identical to mine with my wife of 30 years leaving me in March of 2018. Lean on Him, keep your eyes focused on Him and He will shelter you from the storm.
May God continue to show blessings to Deborah and give her never ending hope that this situation is made right in His eyes and His plan.
In Jesus mighty name I pray. Amen!sebach32Prayers: 6Requests: 2
January 1, 2019 at 11:12 am
Dear Sister, The Lord is YOUR Shepherd , you SHALL NOT be in want. He has green pastures for you. So you can lie down and rest in the safety of His love, Care, and provision. In some way or another, we all are acquainted with grief like our Savior. Yet, He gave us His comforter, the Holy Spirit to come along side us in times of deep sorrow, disappointment and all of the other emotions that rise from a life changing event. For my own personal journey I needed to bury, I mean physically and realistically bury, grief, disappointment and others who contributed to my sorrow, in the ground. No I didn’t hurt anyone, I just wrote it all down on paper and buried it so when those memories come, this voices, those hurts and pains, I can tell grief, I said goodbye to you on December 31st 2018 so you can’t keep me company anymore. That’s why I loved what you said…”I await a glorious unfolding, a resurrection after death, and joy that surpasses grief.”I have carried sorrow for so long that Blessings from God I couldn’t even enjoy. But you my sister have to walk through it. The Lord is with you just as He is with all of us. He is the First and the Last; the Beginning and the End, and the ONE who holds your life in the palm of His hands. Do not fret Oh Daughter, the Lord is thine strength.veronaangolPrayers: 1Requests: 1
January 1, 2019 at 5:02 pm
Oh Father, what words do we have that could bring Deborah the strength to continue to stand through this time, but the Word of God itself we pray that Deborah would find hope and healing in and through Your word. I also pray for Deborah’ estranged husband who made the decision to walk away we don’t know why but You do I pray that he would also come to acknowledge the pain Deborah is going through right now and if there be anything in him that needs to be worked through I pray that he would open his heart you Lord to come in heal whatever needed. May you continue to surround Deborah with your love and people around her that can stand with her through this time. In Jesus name amenmsweeney16.msPrayers: 2Requests: 1
January 1, 2019 at 6:14 pm
Hi Deborah I’m praying for God to give you peace as this can be very unsettling especially when all indications are that things are ok. It reminds us that no matter what people do to us that Christ is always with us and loves us and will never let us down. This is true whether things are great or not so great. I’ve realized that keeping this in mind helps makes sense of unfortunate events that happen to us and make the most of them. Peace be with youstefwalkerPrayers: 1Requests: 0
January 1, 2019 at 7:45 pm
Will be praying for you I know the hurt and pain that comes with this betrayal. Stay close to the Lord he will be your strength and your guide each day to get you off of the floor and walking on a path. In life we always want a plan B but when the carpet gets pulled out from under you , you are faced with only HIS plan . It is a scary road but cling to his love and you will feel it I promise . Praying for you sister , you are stronger than you think .gsimoninPrayers: 1367Requests: 12
January 2, 2019 at 11:36 am
I agree with those prayers for Deborah and add my own. Father, lifting up Deborah and her family situation before You we ask for Your holy favor upon her. Give her Your peace, Your grace and Your comfort. Bless, encourage and give her peace. Know sister, that Jesus prays for you every day! That’s pretty awesome. We also ask for Your wisdom for Deborah, to know what to say and when, or when to remain quiet, bringing her concerns always to You.
Blessings sister as you continue to be faithful to our Lord and Savior. We wait to hear how the Lord has blessed and worked through all this mess to His honor and glory.deborahclavettePrayers: 1Requests: 1
January 6, 2019 at 6:28 pm
thank you all for your heartfelt prayers for me & my situation. I am hoping that the next few weeks will bring legal resolution so that I can proceed with whatever God has next, while also recognizing that God’s timing is perfect. there is a tension in releasing the timing to God and yet anticipating moving forward. praying for rest and trust, because He is worthy of my complete confidence, for He is faithful.bedsolefamilymamaPrayers: 3Requests: 0
January 11, 2019 at 5:30 pm
Be near, Oh God, to my sister in Christ. Hold her. Hide her. Heal her. In Jesus’ Name, Amenfrankopoy68Prayers: 1107Requests: 12
January 12, 2019 at 1:24 pm
Amen to all the prayers. Dear Lord please make away for this lady and give her the desires of her heart. May the fullness of your love be known to her as she trust in you. Fill her with visions of the future and what you have in store for her. May she look at this as anew beginning and not an end. Lord we know she has a abundant life ahead of her in you. Please bring her this comfort that you are a willing God with never ending in love. In the loving name of our Lord Jesus Christ we pray.frankopoy68Prayers: 1107Requests: 12
January 16, 2019 at 1:43 pm
Dear Lord prayer is such a encourager and sparks the flames of hope. We pray your precious presence will bring joy to her spirit and thankfulness to her heart. In the loving name of our Lord Jesus Christ we pray.stephanielynnrobinsonPrayers: 11Requests: 1
January 16, 2019 at 2:30 pm
God bless you beautiful woman of God you are an inspiration… what a humble and selfless prayer to pray in a time of personal struggle and heartbreak. Lord Jesus please comfort your daughter in this time of tremendous grief. Where there is sorrow fill her with joy. Where there is discouragement fill her with hope. Where there is bitterness or anger fill her with compassion and Your Peace that surpasses all understanding. Please help her rely on Your Strength as encouragement. Jesus I pray that her future may be filled with wonderful opportunities and things to look forward to. I pray against all feelings of loneliness or isolation or depression. May new friendships enter her life and shower love upon her. May her days be filled with the joy of the Lord. He is your strength!! When you are feeling down remember that we are living not for this life, but for the next!!!
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