Narcissist Abusive Wife, Church Making Everything Worse
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HimsentPrayers: 28Requests: 2
September 24, 2024 at 10:29 pmThe Holy Spirit revealed to me the Covert Narcissistic Abuse of my wife of 14 months. She will not acknowledge these behaviors. My Mentor(an Elder, husband to my wife’s mentor; they led us in pre-marital counseling), our Pastor, and several Christian counselors have made the situation much, much worse. Please pray that eyes are opened, that The LORD would convict and heal my wife, that the network of people attempting to provide care would be given wisdom and discernment
spiritdoc1Prayers: 50739Requests: 2878
September 24, 2024 at 10:47 pmDearest Himsent; I have written an article about Narcissist. Read it and comment what you think? I am praying for your request. God bless you. 🙏🏻♥️🕊️
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September 25, 2024 at 8:56 pmSorry if this is sent twice, but could you link the article?
spiritdoc1Prayers: 50739Requests: 2878
September 25, 2024 at 11:11 pmDearest Himsent; The article is on the prayer wall. I will not be able to link it.
HimsentPrayers: 28Requests: 2
September 25, 2024 at 11:31 pmDo you know when you posted it? I would be able to find it with that info, I think. Thank you for praying
spiritdoc1Prayers: 50739Requests: 2878
September 26, 2024 at 10:07 amPrayer wall. What is a religious Narcissism? Something To Think About🤔
beadqueen4uPrayers: 4Requests: 3
September 26, 2024 at 10:27 amDear Himsent, My husband is also a covert narcissist and we are divorcing. I have also been triangulated by church leadership and counselors. You are not alone! Please be sure to take care of yourself and focus on Jesus… I will be praying for you!
HimsentPrayers: 28Requests: 2
September 27, 2024 at 11:49 amThanks, BeadQueen. I’m so sorry.
HimsentPrayers: 28Requests: 2
October 16, 2024 at 8:26 amSpirit doctor, I did end up finding what you wrote. The heart condition, the selfishness, the seeking of self glory of the pharisees and Jesus’ desciples reveal our need for Christ. The damage a narcissist can do in a church or community is spread out over many peoplem it can be far-reaching, like a wildfire. The damage it does to a spouse cuts deeper than I can describe. It is like the opening of a Grand Canyon.
HimsentPrayers: 28Requests: 2
October 16, 2024 at 8:41 amUpdate: The folks at the church will not see my wife’s behavior as abuse. They only see my cry for help, my insistence that she acknowledge her condition as an ultimatum, calling me intractable. They have opted out of working through reconciliation with us, and so has she. My mentor of 3 years was involved in the now defunct “care team,” he has cut off communication with me. I have learned she has taken her slander to the next level, telling people I put my hands on her. She has been crashing with folks, hopefully friends from the church. She plans to move in to her own apartment some time this month. She came and took my dog a week and a half ago. I am in a CPTSD haze and don’t know what to do.
spiritdoc1Prayers: 50739Requests: 2878
October 16, 2024 at 11:24 am🙏🏻♥️
Humble PiPrayers: 2515Requests: 167
October 17, 2024 at 9:34 amPraying and fasting can help. Jesus said so… lifting up this situation to the LORD. You are in spiritual warfare. Father, fill my brother with Your Holy Spirit as he seeks You. Let him surely find You and find joy in the midst of this turmoil and these discouraging events. Let him see that the battle belongs to the LORD and give him the means to see and do what are Your desires to bring the marriage covenant back into center with the purposes of God. Father, let no other unholy thing intervene. Let the matrimony be holy as prescribed by You in Jesus’ name this is prayed. Amen.
GrandmaDulseePrayers: 77Requests: 4
October 17, 2024 at 12:15 pmIt’s a personality disorder. Therapy would help, if she’s open to it? Definitely praying 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
qjbakerPrayers: 30Requests: 31
October 17, 2024 at 12:30 pmI pray that in the midst of your pain that God will fill you with the knowledge of his will, through all spiritual wisdom, and understanding Colossians 1:9
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January 31, 2025 at 9:47 amIt has been nearly 6 months since she walked out. 3 since she has communicated with me in any meaningful way. The National Abuse Hotline confirmed her condition, her abuse. My Christian counselor has, too. He is trying to convince me to file for divorce and leave my church. Their false doctrine on sin and rebuke has contributed to this stalemate.
I see her at church almost every week, she gives me the cold shoulder. One week I was crying, and she walked within 2 feet of me with the biggest smile on her face. She would rather abandon me than deal with her own issues, than look in the mirror. She is surrounded by enablers. She is comfortable lying so this has been easy for her to do.
Dear Father God, In Your Son Jesus Christ’s Holy Name, please move in her heart. Convict her her sin, heal her neurological disorders. Open the eyes of those who have believed her lies, who coddle and protect her from examining herself. Please, if it is within Your Perfect Will, end this trial
slingbass2Prayers: 684Requests: 89
January 31, 2025 at 10:14 ampraying 🙏
spiritdoc1Prayers: 50739Requests: 2878
January 31, 2025 at 1:54 pmBeloved, Don’t give up! There is many religious Pharisee’s out there. You focus on your self, to be completely strong in the lord. God will never abandon you. Stay connected with this platform. I will remained in prayer for you. Thank you. “The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face shine on you and be gracious to you; the LORD turn his face toward you and give you peace.” Numbers 6:24 Sending my love and prayers. 🙏🏻♥️🕊️
HimsentPrayers: 28Requests: 2
January 31, 2025 at 3:44 pmThank you for praying, SB, thank you the encouragement, SD. I keep encountering other people in my church who are upset at how I have been treated, but do nothing.
cinbahhPrayers: 6942Requests: 95
February 1, 2025 at 8:01 amFather, Guide me .
If you are abused by your wife and her church, you don’t have to attend this church. Your suspicions of abuse have been confirmed. I pray God will guide you to a church that is biblically based and that He will lead you where you should go in this marriage. . I pray healing and a closer walk with God who gives comfort to those who seek him. He knows Your heart and He knows hers. I pray provisions for you in all manner of need.
I pray this in Jesus’ name, AmencinbahhPrayers: 6942Requests: 95
February 1, 2025 at 8:09 amFather, I pray for the healing of Your daughter and pray she return to you. . I pray discernment about this church and pray my observations and advise has been Yours. Lead him in the ways he should go.
In Jesus’ name, AmenFrom Junk To TreasurePrayers: 912Requests: 33
February 1, 2025 at 8:24 amFather God, you have heard this request. lead all who are involved in this relationship to have open eyes of God’s will, plan and teaching of grace, mercy, forgiveness, righteousness in they’re living and wisdom and discernment. In the Prescious name of Christ Jesus our Lord. Amen and Amen
pamdavisPrayers: 146Requests: 4
February 1, 2025 at 8:53 amPrayers 🙏
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February 1, 2025 at 9:02 amYes 🙌 family, may the Most High grant you obedience and to be under conviction of “all things” in order to mirror the Father, for under the blood of Jesus and the name of the Lord; radiate the Son, through the righteousness of Christ; and reflect The Holy Spirit, in The Word of God, for He says: “Your speech should always be pleasant and interesting, and you should know how to give the right answer to everyone.” Colossians 4:6 GNT Amen 🙏
sBaPrayers: 192Requests: 1
February 1, 2025 at 9:20 amDearest Father GOD, we know that You’re working in Himsent’s situation.
We pray in Jesus’ Name for resolution of this conflict with his spouse. Amen.myanchorsurePrayers: 3331Requests: 246
February 1, 2025 at 12:18 pmDear LORD,
this may go much deeper than a personality disorder. Father, we bind the strong man spirit that has gotten into this house to spoil and plunder what is good. By Your grace Father, bring deliverance and restore what the enemy has stolen from this couple by well-meaning individuals who lack proper decrement, and proper Biblical counseling skills. Take what the enemy has meant for evil Father God, and turn it around for good…In JESUS’ ✝ holy Name.
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