Please help me detach from hovering mother
janedrewwarnerleePrayers: 3Requests: 2
June 30, 2020 at 11:18 am
My mom has always been controlling and have babied us all. I recently became a mother and it’s almost worse. Please pray I can detach from her and stand up and take control of my own life, instead of needing her approval from conditioning over the years. My name is Jane and my mother’s name is Carey. Thanks DAB family. Praise Jesus!gsimoninPrayers: 4746Requests: 32
June 30, 2020 at 11:28 am
Yes, Lord, today we pray for Jane that You will help her calmly set and hold boundaries with her mom. It’s likely to be a rough road at first since it doesn’t sound like this has happened previously. She might need to set the boundaries verbally and then back them up with physical distance. Help Jane appropriately detach from mom and get All of her approval from You.
You can do it, Jane! It will be worth the effort in the long run. Think of it as a gift you are giving your precious child. A good Christian counselor can help you. I went to one many years ago and our entire focus was her helping me get emotionally strong enough to hang up the phone on my mom when she would call and be verbally abusive. I succeeded! You can to. BlessingsgoingupsoonPrayers: 749Requests: 16
June 30, 2020 at 12:12 pm
Amen! Lord, we pray for a opportunity to arise where Jane can speak to her mother and explain how she need’s to walk her own path now that she is a adult. And that even though she dose appreciate all of the support, and guidance over the years. It’s come time to step out on her own, and be allowed to Make decisions for her and her new family.
Lord, Help Jane to make this transitions as easily as possible. Without hurting her mothers feeling to much. Give Jane the courage to move forward with this. The sooner the better. It will be much harder once her child gets older. Better to do it now, then to wait until later.
Father, praying that you over shadow the mother and daughter with you peace. Thank you Lord, that you are walking with them through this. And this, will only strengthen their friendship in the long run.
In Jesus name i pray.
BelovedKeep me in the lightPrayers: 198Requests: 1
July 1, 2020 at 6:49 am
Lord please help Jane find her independence. Please help carey understand that her daughter needs this and that it is not personal. Allow their love for one another to remain strong as they support one another in a new way 🙏🏼❤️ Thank you Lord.Blessed By Jesus in KCPrayers: 4Requests: 0
July 1, 2020 at 8:30 am
Dear LORD, please help Jane to find her voice in YOU. It is difficult to detach from someone you love that is harmful to you, so may you give her peace of mind and the “OK” to be the woman that you have made her to be. I lift up Carey to you. May she see that her hovering love is a possible sign of loneliness in her own heart where she feels the need to be in every minute of her children’s lives. I have been there and I thank you for the release of that need through putting my self more in to the WORD and letting you fill that need of relationship with you instead of others. May you allow Carey to see that her time as a constant mother to Jane is over and may she stand back and see the great job that You have done in Jane’s life. May she know that Jane is going to be OK and will raise her grandchildren well. Please bring healing to this relationship. In the name of Jesus, I pray. Blessed By Jesus in KCgsimoninPrayers: 4746Requests: 32
July 1, 2020 at 10:06 am
Yes, Lord, today praying for mom Carey. Help her step back with a smile on her face and joy in her heart. Show her ways to be helpful without being intrusive. May she ask her daughter first and abide by Jane’s decisions. Now is the time for Carey to accept Jane as a fully functioning adult. Help Carey do so, Lord. Blessings
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