Please pray for my relationship with BF
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rebeccayun521Prayers: 17Requests: 4
March 3, 2017 at 1:11 pmDear DAB family, this is Rebeca Jeong from Korea and i started listening to daily audio bible from last week and i totally fall in love with it.
I also listen to the pray wall updates so I also invite you to pray for me , i am living with my BF and he is not a mature Christian so he can’t understand the seriousness of premarital sex. I tried so many times to leave from his side, but all failed cause he tried to commit suicide… He is going to church with me and reading bibles with me everyday , but still didn’t get the point to stop the sin…
So i fell so stuck here , don’t have confidence to move on to marry him , also don’t know how to end up this relationship. I still desperately hope I can be restored and used as Gods servant, but I feel i have no way out….
Can you please pray for me and help me get out from the current situation ?
I still believe the one who created me can restore all the years the locust has stolen, but i so so wanna stop hurting my loving lord with this sin….
Its so heartbreaking and hopeless…Michaela from GloucesterPrayers: 882Requests: 53
March 3, 2017 at 1:18 pmWelcome Rebecca 🙂 I’m so glad you found us and that you’re being blessed by Daily Audio Bible.
Remember God loves you and you are so very precious to him!
Praying for you and for guidance and wisdom. Also praying for your boyfriend.
SheilaTPrayers: 2920Requests: 24
March 3, 2017 at 2:03 pmWelcome Rebecca!!!
You have joined a wonderful family and you will feel at home . I am praying for you and will offer you some advice later today .
God is in control and will make a way for you .Stay blessed and talk to you soon !!
melph24Prayers: 35Requests: 10
March 3, 2017 at 5:18 pmHi Rebecca
I am so glad you found the DAB! You are not hopeless, and neither is your boyfriend. I have struggled and stumbled in the same ways as you. Our stories are similar, and the last few months, I have really felt God tugging on my heart about how my sinful actions damage my relationship with Him.
I am standing in faith with you. It is God’s hope and destiny for each of us to live fruitful lives free from the bondage that sin causes. And it is frustrating when you want to be there for someone you love, but feel pressured to live outside of God’s holy design.
I am confident that you will make the best decision and chose to honor your relationship with God. I know that in doing so, the Lord will bless both you and your boyfriend, strengthening you to live in obedience, in accordance with the Word of God. It may not be overnight, but God hears your cries, and he sees every sacrifice you make. He is delighted every time you choose your relationship with Him over the desires of this world.
I love you, and I will keep praying for you!
SheilaTPrayers: 2920Requests: 24
March 4, 2017 at 12:59 amThe devil is a LIAR!! I had typed in what needed to share with you.. and guess what I lost it all! Anyway he will NOT stop me not now and never!
I will share my past:
15 years ago I was a carnally minded/ not fully delivered Christian. I lived with my boyfriend and knew for sure that this was not pleasing to God and always lived in guilt. I later gathered courage and spoke with my pastor’s wife who was very gracious and advised us to abstain . That was in June 2004, in July 2004 we got married .( we loved each other)
I tell you the truth the consequences of sin is death and that is what God teaches us. So yes I died spiritually! I was in a desert for several years .. and the enemy did everything in his power to cause strife between me and my husband after getting married. BUT God Raised up a Standard against Satan and said ENOUGH !!! of your lies and manipulation!!
Jesus set us free!!I will say this to you… God will forgive you because that is His nature; and yes you and everyone of us must pay for the sins that we commit. Like David said in 2 Samuel 24:14″Let us now fall into the hand of the LORD for His mercies are great, but do not let me fall into the hand of man.” so do not fear , God will make a way of escape for you.
Now regarding your relationship, have you made your mind that you truly want to break up? If so please pray seriously about it. God knows that you desire to live for him and he will make a way of escape for you. You are here to PLEASE GOD and not man.
Remember this:
1. The enemy will put guilt on you.. telling you that if you leave then your BF may commit suicide
2. The enemy may say .. well if you truly care for him why do you want to leave?
3.The enemy may also say .. well just repent after your sin .. you don’t have to get married.. everyone does it..Do not listen to his lies .. He comes to steal , kill and destroy! and yes I hate him with a passion. I have purposed each day of my life to live for God and HATE everything that God hates and that includes the devil. Now just to give you an encouragement: You are wondering if you can be restored and whether God can use you as his servant: To answer your question I will use myself as an example. I am not proud of the past BUT I am proud of the one I serve JESUS!
1. Did I fornicate in the past? Yes
2.Did God forgive me? Yes
3.Is God now using me as his servant? Yes!!You bet He is!!!
4.Did God restore all the years the locust had stolen? Yes he did ! and I am loving every bit of it.So my sister, know this Satan will NOT snatch you out of God’s hands. You are now a part of our family (DAB) and we shall uphold you in prayers and ask God to deliver you and set you free! I pray that the Lord Jesus will also set your BF free . I pray that God of all wisdom will bestow wisdom upon you as you make a decision regarding this relationship. Keep us posted on how you are doing and we sure shall make an inquiry to the Lord that answers by fire! The one that puts the enemy to flight. That is the God I serve.
Stay encouraged and strong in Christ and know that He loves you very much! Don’t feel hopeless.. God will make a way of escape for you.
soundyaaPrayers: 3085Requests: 12
March 4, 2017 at 8:38 amAmen sister Shelia. Know that if you choose to break up because this is what God is saying, he has a plan and a path. I fully believe from experience that to honour God by not having premarital sex will be blessed, your faith will become your righteousness in this situation and you will be justified through your action. Never think you need someone more than God, place God first submit to his will above any living person. He loves you so dearly
God bless you in Jesus namejtylerk9Prayers: 1512Requests: 7
March 5, 2017 at 1:44 pmPraying Rebecca
rebeccayun521Prayers: 17Requests: 4
March 9, 2017 at 2:19 amDear Michaela, Thanks for reminding me I am still precious in HIS eyes and thanks for praying for my BF… I feel so loved by God and feel Gods kingdom is so real among us , although we havent met and dont know each other!! I also wanna join the prayer minister will you !
rebeccayun521Prayers: 17Requests: 4
March 9, 2017 at 2:24 amDear melissaherman24,
I am so in tears while reading your message, so thankful and so thrilled by HIS love spread through you message… With all your prayers, i already stepped out to register in a local church and joined the youth small group and signed up for 40 days fasting before Easter…. I am also confident that He will lead me through ,it may be not overnight work , but i am on the way!! Sincere thanks for your message! My dear sis in Chirstrebeccayun521Prayers: 17Requests: 4
March 9, 2017 at 2:28 amDear soundyaa, total agree that we shouldnt choose anyone over God and I am so regretful for my wrongs, and i am praying he give me the wisdom and courage to make the right decision and leave the sinful trap asap! Thanks for being with me! Its so huge
rebeccayun521Prayers: 17Requests: 4
March 9, 2017 at 2:30 amDear jtylerk9,
Thank U sincerely for praying with me, Prayer Warrior!!!rebeccayun521Prayers: 17Requests: 4
March 9, 2017 at 2:56 amDear sheila.tolson,
So so so thankful and encouraged by your message, especially by your own experiences, nothing can comfort more than our own testimonies…
You prayed for me on 4th and on 5th, Sunday , i registered in the local Korean church i have only attend as Sunday christian… ( Actually i am Chinese and have been in Korea for only 2 months, my bf is a Korean and seems he is not ready to register so i went up and submit my registration form and talked with the church members and they divided me to youth group and i joined the youth small group for the first time in Korea, its so good to be connected to church again)
And now i am praying again, i mean, not general prayers like what i did for the last 2 months…
I am praying with determined heart to repent! Like a dying person i can only cling on to HIS hands at this moment in prayers and i will do it!
About my relationship with him, i havent decided yet.. I am very confused….
On one hand he treats m very well and i dont wanna hurt him;
one other hand, he keeps dragging me in premarital sex and doesnt understand how this sin hurts our lord…
He is 15+ years older than me and its also a very huge challenge to me and my family members, I always cant control my tears when i see young couple standing together to serve God. I also so wanna a same minded bf standing with me to serve HIM….
All things twisted together and i havent decided to break up or move on…. SO i only pray HE shows me the way out…Michaela from GloucesterPrayers: 882Requests: 53
March 9, 2017 at 6:57 amPraise God for the steps forward you’ve taken 🙂 and that you’re being blessed by your church 🙂 continued prayers for you, for wisdom and for guidance, and for your bf
Join us anytime praying for each other here 🙂 or you can call into the prayer line 🙂 or there is DAB friends Facebook group 🙂 there’s probably other places too
Jose1997Prayers: 21Requests: 4
March 9, 2017 at 10:42 amSister, I’ve been in similar situations with my ex. May God help you both and comfort you both. May he open the eyes of your boyfriends heart so that he can see the consequences of premarital sex. Stay strong sister. We love you. In the name of Jesus Amen
soundyaaPrayers: 3085Requests: 12
March 9, 2017 at 10:12 pmKeep seeking God as you are doing. Keep close talk to others as you do. God will guide you and slowly you will know the path to take. In Jesus name I pray. Also make sure you worship and sing to God your favourite songs as that will lift your spirit. God bless
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