I believe you may need to come to accept what has happened in the past and look towards forgiveness. That it was in the past, we all fall short, sin is sin, there is no small or big, there is just separation from God. Jesus blood covered her sin. IT is only with Jesus that she and you can move through it, I solely believe there is no other way. But know God has a plan in this, he doesn’t want you to be separated, he is watching, he is close. Give your hurt, pain and loss to your Heavenly Father, he is the only one who understands what this has done to you. Dont worry or be afraid just keep close to Jesus in these coming days. I pray you hear this as I believe this is what God is saying to me. Seek a pastor locally to you if he says something similar then you will know that is Gods will in this.

My brother my heart cries out with yours . I believe you really love your wife and that’s the reason that this hurts you so much .

We have an enemy and he is a liar ! He doesn’t mind anyone going to church so let it not surprise you why your wife has done what she has done yet goes to church . The enemy has blinded her and we have to pray and cry out to God so that the lord can remove the veil from her eyes .
She needs to be delivered from the spirit of adultery . This is a spiritual warfare and we all face different warfares .

The God we serve is greater than any stronghold of Satan .
Stay strong my brother I will be praying for you and waiting to hear a report . Do not be discouraged my brother, this too shall pass .
May the Holy Spirit convict your wife and lead her to true repentance.

Peace be upon you my brother and know that my heart is heavy so I cannot write much .
I will keep praying for you .

Brother. The flesh side of me wants to give advice which contradicts the spiritual side of me. Praying for the wisdom and clarity that you so deserve. Praying even more for your wife as she needs to lean more into God and ask for understanding on what He tells us about marriage in the scriptures.

Dear brother,
I don’t think that you are kissing her butt, think that your are honouring your Heavenly Father. There is no doubt what you are dealing with that some cannot accept, but God offers possibility, he is a God of the impossible.
Most importantly always think about the future of your children, the way you are and how you lead your family will affect them, your feelings, your words and actions will influence your previous family. You are the head of the family.

I think that it is important that your wife sees she has choice and doesn’t think you are saying just go. Remember the power and influence of words James 3:5 for you today.

The road that lies ahead will be hard and to endure it you and she will have to role with the difficult of moments of this hardship. It is a part of adaption and time is needed. I have seen the result of this sort of thing myself, I have seen also what guilt can do to people, remember it is within your power to release the guilt she feels in this. She may need this from you as well as Jesus. I pray that you are able to prayerfully consider this.

Please know I don’t approve of what has happened in one bit, I HATE sin, but I can never judge anyone, because i myself am a failure. I am praying that she would be convicted to cut all and every tie associated with this other person and understand the importance of Matthew 5:29.

I pray for your beautiful children, I pray that they can help you experiences positive moments as a family and that you understand what they may be going through. Brother your situation is distressing, I feel the hurt in it, its so sad. But dont give up just yet. Jesus didnt give up on us. Honour him a bit more, if your wife chooses to go I pray she can never say it was because you told her to.

Praying each day ahead now. God bless you at this most difficult and challenging time. Amen.

Amen Sister Shelia. Praying these words in agreement.
I pray that you both would have the daily strength needed, I pray that you both can begin a healing journey from today. I pray the power of Gods light would be within your house so it would be a place where you are free from evil. In Jesus name. Amen.

So sorry to hear what’s happened/happening with your marriage. I am praying for you and your family. Be encouraged- God loves you and wants you to draw close to him. He is your shelter, your refuge, your strong tower and a very present help in times of trouble. I commend you for posting your prayer request with such openness. My marriage is a wreck. I am miserable. And I’ve been fighting for it for a long time now. At times I get discouraged and very angry, but when I put my eyes on Jesus He tells me He will lead me and I am doing right to honor my marriage vows. I question whether it’s worth it much of the time, yet I press on and speak against evil thoughts. Your situation is very different from mine. I’m sorry for your suffering and pain. It totally sucks. I’ve read the other posts and agree that forgiveness is always what we need to do, otherwise we are the ones who suffer. As far as seeking professional help- I hear you when you don’t have the money for it. It can be expensive. God will give you the help you need and can provide good Christian counsel through believers, Pastors, etc. But first and foremost, I encourage you to stay in his Word. There are also so many good resources available online. Father, direct this man to good resources. Give him wisdom. Give him courage. Give him maturity to rise above the circumstances and lead his family as you want him to. Things can seem so messed up and we can feel overwhelmed, but praise You for instructing us to cast our cares on you because you care for us. Yes!! That is what I cling to. You will never leave us or forsake us. You lead us through this journey of life…we just have to keep our eyes on you, listen to you, obey you and trust you. May this brother hear your words of life and carry on leading his family with him. Work out his marriage. Do what is best for him, his wife and his children. Yes, that enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy. He is crafty and many are lead astray by him. Protect this man and his family, for your Name. Thank you for exposing the darkness and bringing to light the truth. Let us walk in the light as you are in the light! Fill us with Your Holy Spirit! Let us put on the armor of God so that we can take our stand against the enemies schemes. We will pray continually in the spirit. Thank you for making a way for us. We will fix our eyes on you Jesus. You are with us. We are never alone. Thank you for this Prayer Wall. Bless this man and his family. Bring health, healing and restoration in your perfect way. I thank you for answering prayer! Thank you for the good hearted people who take the time to read, pray and share- bless them. Thy will be done! You live Jesus! You reign! We are seated with you in the heavenly realms. Thank you for your great love and sacrifice. You paid it all! We are redeemed! We are righteous because you have clothed us in Your righteousness! We will walk in that victory with head held high- sons and daughters of the King of Kings!! Thank you Jesus!! May we share the good news, testify to it as your disciples and may we make disciples. You are coming again soon!! Thank you for our families. Thank you for our sisters and brothers in Christ. Amen! Hang in there and keep on asking for prayer as you pray for your wife, your marriage and your family. You have been a good example to me. Thank you. Be strong and courageous. God goes before you.

Will pray that she can open up to you. Stay strong in God know that he is working in your waiting.

Brother Uriah,
So amazing to see your grace towards your wife . Even if she says anything negative you continue doing the right thing .
Try this out if you haven’t yet
1.Get a bible story book for kids and read to them every night
2.pray for the Kids before they go to bed
3.Take time on your knees because this is the best place to win wars
4. Pray for your wife and be very kind to her .

As you do this a part of her will be touched by the love of God through you .
We shall keep pressing in for your marriage. God is at work brother so don’t give up
Blessings upon you brother

My heart breaks for you brother.

I pray now that my brothers eyes will be opened and that the truth be revealed through the holy spirit.

Father I pray you provide this man with self control and remove pride in all things but you.

I pray that the scriptures and not the world are the guides in this matter. Divorce or reconciliation are both biblical make him strong to seek your word and not chose either through desperation or hurt.

I pray for the wife that she might be restored if this is your will and that she not yo yo back and fore between the two love interests.

God Bless you brother Uriah!
Do not give up. We shall keep uplifting you in prayers.