Seeking many advisers as Proverbs says to
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mamoose1970Prayers: 162Requests: 23
September 29, 2022 at 7:23 pmHello DAB Family,
I am seeking advise from you all as Proverbs says “Without counsel plans fail, but with many advisers they succeed”. I moved in with my boyfriend of one year for financial reasons. My income was cut in half through COVID and sharing rent made sense. We are not having sexual relations but sleep in the same bed. He has ED. He asked me a question the other day that has me very puzzled and questioning his care for me. He is a nature photographer. He showed me a picture of a young lady in a very skimpy bikini on a beach on a photography page (I am in my 50s) and said “Are you going to pose for me like this? Or am I going to have to get a young, hot girl to do it?” He has never asked me a question regarding ANY photography of me before. There has never been any discussion about it. He then said, “That’s a loaded question, isn’t it?”
I was very shocked by the question. I responded “My body is for my future husband to enjoy…not online perverts”Since this question, I am questioning his care for me. I don’t see how a man who cares for his future wife would make her decide that. Could he be testing me to see what my morals are? Or could he be pressuring me to pose for pictures for him which seems creepy to me. Since we started dating a year ago, he frequently shows me a picture of almost naked, beautiful women that someone he knows has sent him or posted to see how I react. I’ve never encountered this before. He is a really nice guy otherwise. I asked him if he was a Godly man early while dating and he said yes. His behavior on the other hand has me baffled. I’m not sure if this is him testing me or what? I REALLY need some Godly advice and know what you all are thinking. Thank you family 🙏❤️✝️
Mamoose
mamoose1970Prayers: 162Requests: 23
September 29, 2022 at 7:45 pmAre there any Godly men out there that can shed some light on this? I’m so confused
GodsgalMNPrayers: 809Requests: 15
September 29, 2022 at 8:27 pmWeird. Something isn’t right here. Very strange. Run. Leave as quickly as you can. Go when he isn’t there and don’t give your new address. Do not live with a man unless and until you are married. This is not a healthy Christian relationship. You can find a female roommate to split the cost. If you have a local church you are attending, meet with your pastor. If you don’t have a church, get one. If you have Godly gal friends, talk to them for support as well as your family. Continue to listen to the DAB everyday, call the prayer line and keep requesting specific prayers. You can also post on this DAB prayer wall like you did today. Keep a good support system of believers and family around you to help you through this. Know that God is with you at all timed, call out to him. I will be – praying you through! God bless you dear sister. – a Dabber, Godsgalmn <
katnappingzzPrayers: 466Requests: 4
September 29, 2022 at 8:49 pmYou should not be in this living situation. it is only provoking and setting you up for a fall. He is not your husband and if he was why would a godly man ask you to pose for provocative photos and then threaten to get someone else to do it if you decline. Move out, friend, God will make a way.
spiritdoc1Prayers: 38755Requests: 2330
September 29, 2022 at 10:00 pmAll this advise for you is full of wisdom. This man is NOT godly. You in the other hand, should Not be sexually engage with a man, unless you married.
goingupsoonPrayers: 20097Requests: 1132
September 30, 2022 at 1:32 amChoose life, and live according to God’s holy WORD. You know what the right decision should be. He’s written His holy WORD in your heart. There’s a old saying if a skunk smells like a skunk, than it’s probably a skunk. Honestly, something stinks here.🦨
sparrowPrayers: 10294Requests: 19
September 30, 2022 at 5:55 amYes is an easy answer if it gets you what you want. “By their fruit you will know them.”
pattysyellowbusPrayers: 5673Requests: 46
September 30, 2022 at 6:18 amJoining the family to agree and pray that you will have the courage and resolve to get out of this situation. In Jesus Name!
spiritdoc1Prayers: 38755Requests: 2330
September 30, 2022 at 7:58 amAMEN🙏🏻
GodsgalMNPrayers: 809Requests: 15
September 30, 2022 at 11:22 pmHi – just checking in again with you to see how you’re doing in this difficult situation? I’m concerned for you sister. Do you have a gal friend or family member that could be with you and support you as you make the changes that are necessary at this time in your life? It’s important that you have support to help you through this transition. Please update us on how you’re doing, so we know the specific things we can pray about. I trust you will search out the resources you need to get through this situation. B4N. Praying that you feel the peace of God as sense the strength of His power while you walk with our King. You CAN do this! We love you!! In the grip of Jesus, Godsgalmn < 💞
GCOGAPrayers: 15847Requests: 1219
October 1, 2022 at 5:28 amPraying along with others and in agreement with these prayers. I pray that our dear lord will give you wisdom and discernment Amen 🙏 Gods Chosen OneGA 🙏🙏
mamoose1970Prayers: 162Requests: 23
October 3, 2022 at 10:31 amThank you everyone for your Godly wisdom and advice. I really appreciate you all. I love you DAB family ❤️
bcandelarioPrayers: 69Requests: 21
October 3, 2022 at 5:10 pm🇬🇧😍💘🌹🇺🇸🌹🌻 🇬🇧🇵🇷 Praying the Lord’s Prayer for us, the world/the lost & those DAB members going through similar circumstances in Jesus’ Mighty Name. Greater is He that is in You than he that is in the world. Make NO PROVISION for the flesh in this time . Pray, FAST, give; ask, seek, knock. Then RUN! “The name of the LORD is a strong tower: The righteous runneth into it, & is safe.” – Proverbs 18:10 “The entrance of thy words giveth light; It giveth understanding unto the simple.” – Psalm 119:130 .”Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: & with all thy getting get understanding.” – Proverbs 4:7 Let’s partner with Immanuel = God with us. biblical advice: divine wisdom acted upon in FULL FAITH is better than man’s “sense”. Please don’t ignore the 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 “For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, & my thoughts than your thoughts.” – Isaiah 55:9 this man & the spirit of predatory perversion in him is INDEED testing you. I PRAY U MAKE a move & spring it on him when he least expects it without notice if possible. Just like he moves on you when you are least expecting it….wise as a serpent harmless as a dove 🐁 I wouldn’t live with a pest🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 🇬🇧😍💘🌹🇺🇸🌹🌻 🇬🇧🇵🇷 ForHisGlory in Asheville
tifnixonPrayers: 377Requests: 43
October 3, 2022 at 6:17 pmLovely sister, I think you know the answer already, as painful as it is to admit. This is a very big red flag that I believe the Lord allowed you to see in order to protect you. I know it may hurt and may even be confusing, but you were just given a glimpse into the true character of your boyfriend. This is not Gods best for you. The Word is clear that a man’s eyes should be for his wife only and the wife is to be cherished. This seems to point at a deeper issue. I do not know your boyfriend and can not presume to know all that is going on in his heart, but this is not showing “good fruit”. I feel sad for him as well, because it seems that he may have a problem that will not allow him to live Gods best plan for his life at this time. You are not currently committed to marriage with him, so my advice would be to leave. Pray for him, but leave.
mrjonathanwalkPrayers: 24Requests: 1
October 3, 2022 at 7:45 pmit doesn’t matter if he has Ed or not, cohabitation or shacking up is still a sin. um, if he’s a Christian why would he be showing you these things? why would he have a woman of the opposite sex come to stay knowing biblically that is not right? um Sister, you should leave for your own sake. put faith in God and trust Him with all financial needs. doing this says your still depending on man. I’m not judging you. but living with him is still wrong no matter how you split the pea. pray for his true salvation. the Word clearly says God does not tempt. this man is tempting him self even doing these things. he’s giving place for sin and the devil. Sister, you have to get out of that situation before it escalates to something worse. please prayand seek God as to what to do further. but you have to get out of that situation. you can’t stay it’s still sin.
mrjonathanwalkPrayers: 24Requests: 1
October 4, 2022 at 9:43 amI’m so sorry, I was wrong. it is not a sin if you are cohabitating with someone. if you two are in seperate beds and are not having sex then yes it’s ok. but the issue us that it is dangerous. And you cannot be bedfellow with this guy, that is worse. this man has already shown signs that hint towards sexual relationship. the Word of God clearly says to abstain from all appearances of evil. How can you go on staying there when it presents an opportunity for temptation and sin? If I were you, I would get away and find an apartment. there are low income hud apartments that have equal opportunity. I don’t think you have to necessarily be disabled or elderly. but you’d have to check that out and see. Sister, you are practicing for divorce. 67% of people who cohabitat end up not marrying at all. which means they must be fornicating with other people.
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