Want to reconcile with ex husband
-
AuthorPosts
-
ashley.t.fisherPrayers: 0Requests: 2
November 7, 2017 at 7:03 pmSo I have been trying really hard to reconcile with my ex husband. And he is just being more distant. He says that I haven’t been doing anything wrong, but it feels like I am not doing enough. I pray for him. I try to not push. To just be there and be supportive. But he just is pushing away. He doesn’t come to church with us. He doesn’t spend time with me and our daughter. I offered to bring him dinner at work and he declined. I am hurting, but don’t want to push him. God please help him to draw near to You and draw near to his family. I feel like we did all of this work together and he is just waiting for it to fall apart. I miss him. And I write him letters. And he never writes back. He called them progress reports. I felt they were an out pouring of my soul.
We are divorced. Perhaps that is my fate to just be a divorced woman. To just be alone. I just feel lost. Like for all of my trying it isn’t going to matter. That me caring for Will will just leave me heart broken. That for all of him saying he won’t leave, he is leaving. And I told him over and over that is what I was afraid of and here I stand alone. Is he seeing someone else? Has he already moved on from us? Am I a waste of time? So much self doubt.
Doubting that this is what God wants. That I can’t hear Him. That God can’t hear my cries because of all the sins I have committed. Divorced, sexual relationships out side of marriage, lying, turning away from Him. I have asked for forgiveness and repented.
thespaatsaintnouveauPrayers: 300Requests: 48
November 7, 2017 at 8:36 pmI am declaring a supernatural interruption in your life Ashley. Lift up your eyes to the Lord. This is where your help comes from. Continue to pour out your soul to him. Try not to focus on how or what or why. Try not to figure out in your mind what’s going to happen. Let God be God. Rest. Rest. Rest. Trust him. You have abided in him. You have honored him and you have honored your family. You have not been perfect. Name one who is? Only Jesus. Leave your baggage at the cross. Leave the negative words that have been spoken over you at the cross. Receive the identity of Christ. You are the head and not the tail. You are above and not beneath. You are not second rate. You are first choice.
Wait on the voice of the Lord. Walk forward and you will be in his perfect will. Enjoy the moments of every day. You will look back at this and understand it. This is walking in faith. Praise him through this. You will have victory.soundyaaPrayers: 3085Requests: 12
November 7, 2017 at 11:13 pmAmen Sister Shannon.
Dear Sister Ashley,
Spend this time getting close to our Lord, I have told others this, but in the worst time of my life it became the best time with our Lord. The relationship he offers goes beyond anything I have ever known. Focus on your daily routine and walk with him. He will direct you and he does not condem you. He will fight for you so for now as rest and have peace in him.Dear Lord Jesus,
Help our sister see you in a new light, come close to bless her and be with her at this hard time. Let your will be done in the situation. Amen.pilly1356Prayers: 846Requests: 3
November 8, 2017 at 1:23 amDear Ashley,
It seems like you are doing all the right things to reconcile with your ex husband. You are being honest, supportive, open, caring and helpful. You are a new creation as a child of God and as a wife. How your ex will respond, I don’t know, but how God responds, of that I am sure. The very moment you repented, He not only forgave you, He rejoiced in you.
Everyone sins, Everyone! I sure have! But not everyone is honest and faithful to confess, repent and humbly ask His forgiveness.( Luke 18: 8-14 is a great illustration…always makes me smile at how blind and arrogant people can be, when all God wants is our hearts.)💙
Merciful Father
I lift up Ashley and ask that you be with her in her efforts to rebuild her family. Please, guide her steps and direct her so that she and her daughter will be living in Your divine will for them. We know all things work together for the good of those who love God, so, please Lord, direct her path, give her clarity and discernment and point her in the direction that will bring her peace and joy and glorify You.
In the Precious Name of Jesus Christ Our Savior
Amen
Jill
His # 100 Sheep -
AuthorPosts
You must be logged in to prayer to this request.