Give up on marriage?
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September 23, 2022 at 11:48 pm
Family, I have asked for prayers before. My marriage is like a roller coaster. My husband is emotionally abusive and even though it has gotten better he still screams at me, curses n sometimes at me and is not kind, caring, forgiving, loving while he’s mad or hours after. He suffers from depression and anxiety. He does not see his behavior as abusive because he says I provoke it by bringing drama and that I’m jealous. Sharing my feelings to him equates to drama and we can’t have a conversation where we disagree because he always ends up screaming at me. I have looked at my behavior as far as being jealous and have to accept responsibility. He has done things to bring a lack of trust and I feel that I’m now somewhat scarred and feel weird when he’s around younger women. I used to complain when I saw him staring at females and we would fight but I don’t anymore because it makes him angry and I realized he wasn’t always guilty. I still struggle but Im praying to God to help me not be jealous and forgive him for past hurts. We are so broken together that I’m not even sure we are worth salvaging. I love the Lord and believe in the power of God and that’s why I hold on. I pray for direction, but I feel it’s up to me and God isn’t going to tell me to stay married or get a divorce. It’s very difficult to live in an unfulfilling marriage because I feel drained, alone and unloved. I pretty much cry daily. He started to get counseled by our pastor a week ago and that gave me hope because he’s seeking a relationship with Jesus and to change, but seeing his unreasonable behavior today made me lose heart. We just seem so disconnected and divided. Please pray for my broken heart and that the Lord would carry me through this very difficult time in my life and that our marriage would either heal miraculously or that we would go peacefully separate ways. And that the Lord heal my husbands from depression and anxiety and that he would not be emotionally abusive, but caring, loving and forgiving towards me. Thank you family. ❤️
September 24, 2022 at 12:06 amQuestion for you? Are you open to go for counseling sessions with your pastor? Praying for you guys🙏🏻♥️🕊
September 24, 2022 at 12:06 amI’ll pray for your situation 🙏🏼
September 24, 2022 at 6:45 amI am thankful to God for you beloved! May our fighting Father give you joy unspeakable. We pray that your husband will have a passionate love affair with Jesus! We ask that the Lord grant him repentance leading to the knowledge of the Truth. Father please give this man whom You created; an undying unending love of the Truth of Your Word, so that he will be changed from the inside out! In Jesus Matchless and Mighty Name 🙏 🙌 Amen
September 24, 2022 at 7:32 am‘Do not be afraid’…’and sent you away in peace’ (Gen 26:24,29) In Jesus’ Mighty Name, we pray, Amen!!
September 24, 2022 at 7:43 am“For I know the plans I have for you, says the LORD, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope. Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will hear you. You will seek me and find me; when you seek me with all your heart, I will be found by you, says the LORD, and I will restore your fortunes and gather you from all the nations and all the places where I have driven you, says the LORD, and I will bring you back to the place from which I sent you into exile.” Jeremiah 29:11-14. Praying for your husband and for you. You mention he is emotionally abusive. Please please please remember that you are a beloved daughter of God, and He does not want you to tolerate abuse. Have you considered talking with a trusted pastor or another relative/friend in Christ in an effort to help you follow the path God is guiding you towards? “In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths.” Proverbs 3:6. Please take care of yourself. 🙏
September 24, 2022 at 8:05 amAbba Father! How You love jsegura9697! Thank You for her prayer and seeking You for the healing of her marriage! Oh Lord, we seek You to restore and refresh this marriage! Thank You, Holy Spirit, for guiding this pain riddled husband to seek counsel from his pastor! Lord, this is huge! We Praise Your Name! Often when we see things in this realm, we are often discouraged because we do not look at what is being done in the invisible realm. 2 Corinthians 4:18. We hold onto the promise we just read in Isaiah 43:18-19: Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up, do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland. Holy Spirit! Live large in our Dabber! Open her eyes to what You are doing! Allow her to get counsel O Lord and step out in faith to follow You. You live inside us, O Lord, we are Your Temple. Thank You Lord that You may lead us to do something drastic to shake things up because patterns have been set. Protect her from the evil one! In Jesus Name!
September 24, 2022 at 8:10 amBTW our marriage is living proof of Christ’s power over all things! We are headed to our 45th wedding anniversary with great joy. The former thing long forgotten is what you are experiencing now. All glory to His Name! He directed me to take drastic measures that proved to all, even unbelievers, the power of God! He is moving!
September 24, 2022 at 9:41 amPraying that there would be inner healing and deliverance in your marriage. That curses from the past… bitterness and footholds and handholds for the enemy would be revealed and removed. The curses of both family’s generations that are passed down from generation to generation would be declared under the blood of Your Son, Jesus Christ. We actively agree with Your WORD, Father, that the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but rather of a spiritual nature. We ask You, King Jesus, to grant wisdom and discernment. Let this couple be focused on You. You are their salvation. You are their healer, You are the good shepherd — Who cares for His sheep. Let them both follow You. Lead them besides the still waters, restore their souls, give them Psalm 23 understanding counselors, sound counselors who love You wholeheartedly and keep them from the evil one. We bind up any pride and arrogance in them that they might invite You, Holy Spirit, to begin a new thing in their lives in Jesus’ name. You want to gift them new lives. Let them yearn for it and receive it. Even if it means fasting and praying a little for an inheritance gained too quickly goes to ruin. Let them both seek YOU with whole hearts and then You will find them. Give them Your abundant grace, I ask in Jesus’ most holy and precious name.Amen.
September 24, 2022 at 9:46 amPraying for this situation and that God will intercede for your marriage and I am also praying that God will give you and your husband many more years of happiness and joy. I know personally that having God placed in the middle of your marriage when you and your husband said your wedding vows before God and the people who were attendees at the wedding ceremony were witnesses of 1st Corinthians 13 and for better or for worse, for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health.. my wife and I have taken those wedding vows seriously since April 23, 1994 and on April 23, 2023 we will be celebrating our 29th wedding anniversary. So, what I am saying is to hold on, include God in every detail of you and your husband’s life, and God will bless you and your husband’s marriage through the mountains ⛰ and the valley’s.
September 28, 2022 at 2:59 amI want to thank you all for praying. Things improved drastically and I was so hopeful because I saw a change in him then yesterday everything took a turn for the worse. He started yelling at me again and took off his wedding ring and stated he wants a divorce. I told him I would do whatever he wanted. I reached out to the Pastor and told him what happened and he was trying to reach out to my husband who has not responded to him. I’m going to see the Pastor or speak to him more in depth because I honestly need help in this situation. I can feel the demonic attacking our marriage and he becomes unreasonable. Thank you everyone who prayed for me. I love you family. You are precious to me. Please continue praying for me.
September 28, 2022 at 3:48 amMay Jehovah God heal you and your husband spiritually, emotionally, mentally and in all your broken places. May your heart be protected until you can clearly make a decision about your future in Jesus name. Blessings and peace🌸
September 28, 2022 at 6:17 amAsking God to rain down His Spirit in your spouse & yourself with great revelation & wisdom, Shalom, JOY, TRUTH & DIVINE VISITATIONS in the heartbreak you are enduring. Pray the Lords prayer daily & keep your heart with all DILIGENCE….PROVERBS 4:23 As you acknowledge Him in all your ways..Proverbs 3:6.
September 29, 2022 at 10:04 amDear Sister,
God does not hold marriage above His love and concern for the individuals in it. You are in an unsafe environment with his behavior like it is. Please do voice to your Pastor and any friend or counselor, someone you can trust about you being scared. This is a real threat to your emotional, spiritual and physical well being. Please contact me if you would like to visit more. There are many resources available but the pressing matter at hand is for your safety and God’s glory.September 29, 2022 at 6:55 pmFather in heaven, Please protect this couple from the snares and devices of the evil one. In Jesus name
September 29, 2022 at 9:23 pmkeep safe. don’t give up.
September 29, 2022 at 9:51 pmContinuing to pray🙏🏻
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