Good morning , my step son Ben is living with us. He’s unmotivated , not working since june , . It’s become a battle for my husband and I . We think differently about this . He has emotional issues from his mom who’s passed away . I’m really struggling with him living with us . I want him to get a job, start paying rent again ! he’s dragging his feet because he smokes pot daily and will need to be drug tested . My husband pussy foots around him . Waiting on God has been getting very hard for me . Thank you for your prayers ! 💜
spiritdoc1
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October 7, 2022 at 9:21 am
Make an counseling appointment. Take husband with you. Praying you’ll start tough love.
goingupsoon
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October 7, 2022 at 1:01 pm
Be firm but loving. Tell him there will be no getting high in our house –PERIOD! If he can’t tow the line, he will need to make other arrangements concerning where he will be living. And then, stick to your guns (so to speak). No one has ever benefited from being enabled. Boundaries sister Marilyn, boundaries. I’m Praying for your family. In JESUS name. Amen! 💓