25 year marriage ending
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Resting in HimPrayers: 2Requests: 2
September 20, 2023 at 11:17 amPlease pray for me as I seek God’s wisdom in making the best decision concerning my 25 year marriage. It has been emotionally, financially and spiritually abusive for most of it. I went back to work 3 years ago and God has been transforming me. God gave me a wonderful position as a Family & Children’s Director. This also gave me a church home, out from under my husbands constant changing of church or having to have him lead in home church. I am a new person. So much healing from being in a healthy environment. I now understand what has happened to me in this marriage, why and what I needed to do for me to be well. This is so good. But it leaves me so lonely. He is emotionally distant, only wants a public relationship outside the home and wants only a roommate relationship within the home. We can go weeks without seeing one another or speaking. Not because of fighting, because he just has no interest in me. Our youngest children left for college 3 years ago and since then he stopped all involvement with me. I was told to stop cooking because he will do his own food now. I feel as if my soul is dying, my mental health is struggling and my body stressed from so much rejection on a daily basis. My son, his step-son, is addicted to heroin, mentally ill with a disability. I am alone as I go through this. It’s been a 10 year struggle with my son and having to manage this alone. One crisis after another. I have a supportive family, prayer partners, church family and friends. My work has been so healing for me and helping me to find my self worth/value. But to come home everyday to a husband who just sees me as a roommate and public wife sucks the life out of me. I begin my day with the Lord, go to work and serve the Lord all day and come home to a daily reminder that I am not loved as I should be in a marriage. I have an attorney, I have been looking for a place to move but I just freeze. I am fasting for 30 days for clear direction regarding next steps. Please pray for me
spiritdoc1Prayers: 40896Requests: 2419
September 20, 2023 at 11:40 amDear Beloved Resting in Him; I am praying for your request. 🙏🏻❤️🕊
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September 20, 2023 at 4:31 pmDear Sister in Christ, Resting in Him; I read your post with empathy and appreciation. Thank you for taking time to explain in detail the pain you are going through. May I suggest that you seek counseling in the church, if they will provide one? If he also loves connecting with you when you are both out; can any of the elders within the outside community where he feels comfortable broker peace and help both of you to reconcile? Your children will come home at some point from college? As grown adults, can you find a path where both of you can work things out? Having a son with challenges I believe will add more to your responsibilities!! While prayer works and takes a lot of patience and consistency; it is important for your mind to heal and be ready to forgive, reconcile and be humble. Humility brings healing while forgiveness and perseverance rewards patience and painstaking. I commit to be praying for your marriage to be restored; for peace and love to reign and return once again. I pray for the spirit of humility and unity to permeate your home. I pray that Jesus Christ will visit you divinely and reorder your steps. Grateful that you work in an environment where you feel loved and appreciated. Let the spirit of God that lives inside of you begin to help you to take baby steps towards restoration and peace. May Gods Holy Presence fill your home. Amen I pray his peace over you my dearest sister. Shalom 🥰🤲✨🌺✨🙏🙏
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September 20, 2023 at 9:48 pmPrayers for you and your husband both that you receive wisdom and guidance in your marriage and that the Holy Spirit touches your husband’s heart and remind him of the commitment he made 25 years ago and put all faith and trust in him. In Jesus name amen
pattysyellowbusPrayers: 5724Requests: 54
September 21, 2023 at 4:00 amAbba Father! How You love Resting in Him! O Lord, let her soak in Your love this day and let her fill her up to overflowing so that she can hear Your Voice. Let her not make decision from her pain, O Lord, but fill her with Your wisdom and discernment. As You are doing, continue to heal her wounds – allow her to see her situation as You do – and as she begins to really see, let her walk in the Spirit. Thank You, Lord, for what You have done in her life, how You have brought her to a good place. Jesus, we lift up her husband to you. We ask for healing and supernatural deliverance from his own trauma. Open his eyes to see You and radically transform him into a new creature. Let him see what he has been missing. Give him a heart of repentance. In Jesus’ Name!
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September 21, 2023 at 6:13 amDear God, please help heal and provide comfort. Please lead Resting in Him on the path you would like them to take. In your name, Amen
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