CONTROLLERS/Something to think About🤔
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spiritdoc1Prayers: 40339Requests: 2398
March 19, 2021 at 12:47 amSome people always have problems, always want your help, and are always in crisis mode. They expect you to come running, to cheer them up, and keep them encouraged. And if you don’t, they try to make you feel guilty. You love them, but you should put up a boundary to keep them from continually dumping their problems on you. You are not responsible for their happiness or to keep them fixed. You have to protect your peace. You have a limited supply of emotional energy each day. If you’re taking on their problems, you’re not going to have the emotional energy for what you need. You’re not their savior; they already have a Savior. A lot of times instead of helping them, we’re simply enabling their dysfunction. If they get upset when you put up a boundary, they are controllers and manipulators. They like you for what you can do for them, not for who you are. You don’t need “friends” like that. Make a change, and God will give you true friends.
JayebeaPrayers: 88Requests: 6
March 19, 2021 at 5:22 amHmmm something to definitely ponder. The quickest way to sort out the controllers from those sincere about wanting to have their lives fixed, pointing them to Jesus in EVERY conversation. The controllers will naturally flee!!
Sunset CyndiPrayers: 134Requests: 12
March 19, 2021 at 8:10 amThis is a confirmation of the change I have made with my son who has started down the path of drinking again. This time around I have given him completely into the hands of God. I have stopped the back and forth texting and phone calls that normally happen. I can see the emotional manipulation and attempt to control that has happened in the past. I feel so free knowing God is in control, not me. There is nothing I can do to keep him alive, my duty is to love him and pray. I now tell him I love you and I’m praying for you. Thank you spiritdoc, thank you Lord for reaffirming the path I am on. Walk with me Lord Jesus. Walk with all your children, lead us in our relationships together. Please Lord heal Aaron’s body, mind, soul and spirit. 🙏✝️
HisChildPrayers: 252Requests: 5
March 19, 2021 at 8:20 amThank you. Sometimes we encourage that as well, as it makes us feel good or useful instead of recognizing we are not their Savior. Are we giving them His words or ours? Saying what they want to hear is not helping them. Cyndi, I like what you are saying as well – tell them we love them and are praying.
spiritdoc1Prayers: 40339Requests: 2398
March 20, 2021 at 7:11 amAmen♥️🙏🏻
a.stouthPrayers: 196Requests: 5
March 20, 2021 at 10:09 amThis is so true! Thank you for sharing this word, spiritdoc ✝️
spiritdoc1Prayers: 40339Requests: 2398
March 22, 2021 at 1:24 amAmen!
salvationpeaksPrayers: 686Requests: 42
March 22, 2021 at 12:44 pmWise words. 🙏
goingupsoonPrayers: 20097Requests: 1132
March 22, 2021 at 2:19 pmAgreeing. It’s best if we guard our hearts, and be couscous of the peace stealers. They are around every corner.đź’“
spiritdoc1Prayers: 40339Requests: 2398
March 22, 2021 at 10:07 pmAmen🙏🏻♥️
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