Controllers/Something to Think About🤔
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spiritdoc1Prayers: 40432Requests: 2402
March 18, 2021 at 2:30 pmSome people always have problems, always want your help, and are always in crisis mode. They expect you to come running, to cheer them up, and keep them encouraged. And if you don’t, they try to make you feel guilty. You love them, but you should put up a boundary to keep them from continually dumping their problems on you. You are not responsible for their happiness or to keep them fixed. You have to protect your peace. You have a limited supply of emotional energy each day. If you’re taking on their problems, you’re not going to have the emotional energy for what you need. You’re not their savior; they already have a Savior. A lot of times instead of helping them, we’re simply enabling their dysfunction. If they get upset when you put up a boundary, they are controllers and manipulators. They like you for what you can do for them, not for who you are. You don’t need “friends” like that. Make a change, and God will give you true friends
b.olsenPrayers: 408Requests: 18
March 18, 2021 at 3:15 pmHello!! Took me many years to learn , to give & take, know my limits and being ok to say no….although I love caring for people ( as many are wired this way) it’s best to know your limits… Anen to the above info🙏
spiritdoc1Prayers: 40432Requests: 2402
March 18, 2021 at 7:15 pmDear Bev; Learning how to set boundaries is a life saver. Many people perish, for lack of wisdom. Our creator said to the sea, this is your limit. How much more us? Blessings to All who take heed.
darla.bernath81Prayers: 1Requests: 3
March 20, 2021 at 5:47 amyou are so right thank you for sharing, and please pray for me as I have a lot of controllers around me. my husband, my eldest daughter who is going through a separation from a narcissitic, master manipulator, and pathologic liar. Their 8 yr old son (my grandson) is going back and forth to his dad and each time he comes back more defiant, belligerent, and narcicistic towards all the adults in my household including his mother. she is working and going to school now, does not believe I spanking, but just keeps givin into Large amounts of alone time for him to be spent on disrespectful, characterless, moraless, teenage media cuz that’s what he wants. I need God’s help to remain grandma with the large amounts of key time I get to have him. currently all the time has changed from obedient respectful fun time to now….i must spend all my tie dealing with constant disrespect, back talk, and refusal to cooperate with all normal routines. of eating sleeping bathing, and generally anything else I have for him to do
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