Listen to AJ, be with him, be patient. Lord I am praying for AJ, the loss of a loved one is painful, its the hardest emotions to settle, its a dangerous time for the enemy strike at all who are effected. Lord I pray for protection over the family, I pray AJ will find peace and rest soon Lord. That his brother would want him to live and not be upset, that this is not the end, that it is Gods plan and that his brother is in the hands of the Lord. I pray in the name of Jesus.

Unfortunately , this is the process of grieving. Until he settles this in his mind, he will not accept anything. It will take time and lots of prayers. The best thing you can do for him is to simply love him, hold him when he will let you and just be there for him. You don’t have to preach to him, or say anything. Just let him led you in this. Just be there. He will eventually break and that’s when God can intercede. God bless.