Guidance on whether to stay living with my husband
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tunes1280Prayers: 5Requests: 13
May 12, 2021 at 10:53 amMy husband has yet again started talking about us splitting up. I am 3 months pregnant with our first baby, he has 2 boys from a previous relationship. While I am 100% physically safe, he is very mean verbally and emotionally and does not want to change how he acts around me/treats me. We’ve been married 3 yrs and he feels he made a mistake b/c we are so different. He was a man on fire for God when I met/married him but he has completely walked away from God. We tried counseling but he does not believe learning how the other person functions or why something is a trigger for the other one matters b/c we will still be the same ppl. I have a very strong support system and have multiple places I could go, which is why it would be me leaving. I have been praying for clear direction on what to do. I know God can heal my marriage regardless of whether we are living in the same house or not. My husband dislikes me so much right now, that he was considering taking a job across the country that would keep him gone 2 months and then home for 2 weeks at a time to see his boys. I’m just not sure how much more negativity I can handle and I know the stress and constant criticism is not healthy for my unborn baby. Ultimately I want my marriage restored and I know God can and will heal it, but I don’t think I can raise a baby in a home where the father is constantly critical and mean to their mother, regardless of how well he loves on the baby. I know God can give me the strength to stay in this, but does he want me to?
trixelina2Prayers: 1015Requests: 85
May 12, 2021 at 11:06 amoh my. I can hear you are wise through ur words. lets pray. Lord. a change of heart. Lord please go to husband and bring a change of heart. bring him to his knees in surrender Lord. put him through what he needs to go through. Lord bring peace to your faithful daughter. bless her. five her unabounding wisdom n discernment in this particular situation so she can make the correct move. amen. pray. darlin. go to ur prayer closet pray than listen for his answer. peace is so important for u while pregnant momma. but know. God is right there. holding ur hand. wiping ur tears. hes working even now. on ur behalf. trust in him. he loves you so much. 💜💙💜💙💜💙💜💙💜Jeremiah 29:11. I know the plans I have for you. Plans of hope and a future. Not disaster. When you pray to me I will hear. When u search for me with all ur heart u will find me.
spiritdoc1Prayers: 40474Requests: 2404
May 12, 2021 at 11:17 amMy friend; This is not a healthy or safe environment for all of you. This is a extremely hard move. You have a strong support system in place. Why would you stay? You’ll know, in time you made the right move. God bless you🙏🏻♥️
goingupsoonPrayers: 20097Requests: 1132
May 12, 2021 at 12:15 pmDear one, I wouldn’t venture to tell you what to do. This is a very hard situation. I will pray that the direction that you are requesting be granted to you. God loves you deeply, and wants to show you the correct path to take. Lord, may she have the wisdom from above, to instruct her in the way in which she should go. Guide her by your Spirit on the right path. Father, we come into agreement with what she’s already declared! “I want my marriage restored, and I know God can and will heal it.” Amen! In Jesus name. 💓
LGPrayers: 754Requests: 0
May 12, 2021 at 3:29 pmI pray You will give our DAB friend wisdom when deciding whether she should live with her husband or not. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
cristyliteb.cbPrayers: 9Requests: 1
May 12, 2021 at 5:05 pmI am going on 3rd year of marriage and Glory be to God I can testify that God does restore marriages, God can bring back love and even better Gods love which never runs out! My 2nd year of marriage my husband left me, said he had made a mistake and that his love for me was gone! I made war with the devil I declared that what God unites no one separates and no weapon formed against your marriage shall prosper! And when all is prayed stay still and wait for the Lord to work his miracle!! Blessings
thebellars1Prayers: 18Requests: 28
May 12, 2021 at 6:03 pmPraying for a movement of the Holy Spirit in both of you. For the Wisdom given generously by the Holy Spirit and for truth to be renewed in your hearts. It is incredibly hard – unfortunately I know. God can restore – seek his truth above your family and friends.
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