Moving Forward After Losing My Guy To Suicide
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mrsmeachum55Prayers: 2Requests: 2
December 24, 2022 at 7:01 amSixteen months ago my sweet husband took his own life after 39 years of life together. This was earth shattering for me but Father God is supporting me and helping me daily to pick up the pieces. I’ve met a gentleman on-line 2 months who is helping me laugh again and feel alive again. He came 500 miles to visit last week. He was a gentleman. His visit was such a blessing! He sends me fun gift boxes and prays for me on my challenging days. The problem is the guy doesn’t want to commit at all and my heart wants something of a commitment. I’m ready for that. I don’t need to be hurt again and my heart is at stake. He’s still on the dating app and very active in it with other women. I texted him last night and told him I have to protect my heart and I need more from him. Please pray that God helps us to figure this out, love y’all. Thank you
hurtobiasPrayers: 594Requests: 279
December 24, 2022 at 7:36 amI am sorry to hear of your husband’s passing. I can only imagine how difficult it must have been and still is at times. I have been married for 40 years. My advice to you is to pursue your relationship with God. You really do not know this person that you have met recently. If he is the right one for you, you want to hear from the Lord. Asking him to commit to you when he is free not to is a red flag. Please, if you have not done so, seek. Certified Christian counseling. Start with your Pastor . He will be a source of accountability and may be able to help guide you to the counseling from which you can best benefit. 40 years ago before I said “yes” to my now husnand of 40 years, I had to hear from God , and know that this fellow believer was the one. Also, I had to know that now was the time for me to make that decision. I had become fond of this gentleman, and that he was. It looked like a great match, but I was willing to say no, and endure a short time of sorry and tears, rather than go my own way and endure a lifetime of it for not seeking God and being open to Godly council. I will pray for you and believe that you will continue to deepen your relationship in Christ. He knows best and He makes things beautiful in His time. Blessings and love to you my dear sister. May you operate in the wisdom that only God can give. Read James1:5.
hurtobiasPrayers: 594Requests: 279
December 24, 2022 at 7:39 am*husband. *sorrow Sorry about the typos.
OvercomerPrayers: 129Requests: 40
December 24, 2022 at 8:18 amJesus help this sweet woman fall deeper in love with you. Help her to not lean on this man for comfort. Satan you are a liar and deceive us by hiding the ugliness you have planned for us. Protect this woman’s heart. I agree with seeking Christian counseling and leaning in to Jesus. Single and happy and at peach is far better than married to the wrong person and miserable. Please seek God’s counsel. Really listen and try to not just hear what you want to hear. You may just need to wait.
NewTrix4anOl'DogPrayers: 1897Requests: 45
December 24, 2022 at 8:54 amYes and Amen Dear Sister. Return to Your first love, and let Him be Your husband. He yearns jealously for You. I pray you commit to trust the person of Christ, and to follow his lead. Who wouldn’t love Mr. Happy go Lucky bearing sweet little gifts and being told ‘he prays for you in your difficult days.’ At least he was honest with you that he isn’t looking to settle down. He is one OF a million others on dating sites. God will bring the right man to you if that is what He has in store for you. Hedge your heartbreak now and count your blessings. It is so worth the wait when we are waiting on God’s goodness to be manifested in our lives. Seek first the Kingdom, and all else will be added … in His timing!! God bless you and keep you in this Christmas season, and in every season. Peace be still .
mrsmeachum55Prayers: 2Requests: 2
December 24, 2022 at 10:56 amOh my goodness your heartfelt responses made me cry! I know I’m terribly lonely and extremely vulnerable to any type of companionship and affection extended toward me right now. I miss hugs and just holding hands! I miss human touch so much. I feel in so many ways this man seems right. But I do have some unanswered questions for sure concerning him. God has been whispering to me in his caring voice to not get in a hurry and to be patient and that he will not withhold any good thing from me that I need. Your words confirm my leanings toward just falling more in love with my Lord. He is safe and sure and can never hurt me. God knows I have been hurt by my late spouse in the worst possible way in existence. Thanks for taking the time to share your thoughts. DAB is such a blessing
spiritdoc1Prayers: 40019Requests: 2385
December 24, 2022 at 11:07 amPraying🙏🏻
tcookuabPrayers: 3767Requests: 78
December 24, 2022 at 11:34 amI pray for you to receive Awe…fear of The Lord verse The Source, Spirit of Faith, rids guilt and despair, acting in disrespect or deceit by despising releasing unto believing in the complete love of peace and loving that’s pure and undefiled; then, I hope to speak and declare for we are not so for you to Know The Spirit of Fear The Lord by the Spirit of God; then, the kingdom of God (has come upon you, before you expected it) all in His Glorious Name!! It is considerate, gentle; then bearing the Affirmation Of Power for “The Simple” of Made a Promise…”Good News a Revelation from Jesus Christ” a Healing Verse, by Saving Power, of Wholeness: “However, when everything is subjected to Him, then the Son Himself will also subject Himself to [the Father] Who put all things under Him, so that God may be all in all [be everything to everyone, supreme, the indwelling and controlling factor of life].” 1 Corinthians 15:28
hurtobiasPrayers: 594Requests: 279
December 26, 2022 at 1:01 pmThank you, mrsmeachum55, for your sincere and heartfelt response. I Praise God for His Holy Spirit that ministers even when we cannot be physically present to give you a hug. I am thinking, by your post, that physical touch may be your primary love language. [Have you ever read the book “The Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman? You can probably also pull up a youtube video on the subject. Just make sure you do not put anything, including touch, before your relationship with the Father. He knows best, and His touch will generate the grace, satisfaction, and joy we need to weather the storms of life. Continue to draw close to Him. I pray for strong Believing sisters in Christ to come alongside and help hold up your hands through this season. I do not know if you have a pet, but I believe they are specially designed for hugs and love. Especially cats and dogs. Truly a gift from God.
Praying for you today, sis. God be praised!NewTrix4anOl'DogPrayers: 1897Requests: 45
December 27, 2022 at 11:16 amPraying You are growing closer to waiting on The Lord; with each passing breath. And yes, physical touch is so important. I was divorced late in life, and now I live alone. At first, I was so lonely, but I promised The Lord, I would not try to outrun my feelings and that I would trust in Him with all of my heart, as long as He was with me. Little by little, he has added ‘little things’ that I had no idea would bring me such comfort. A tiny cottage (practically on the river) that has not flooded in its 50 years. A huge financial blessing and restoration between me and my sister, who picked up the balance on my home, so she holds my ‘very minimal ‘mortgage’ on my home. God gave me a job at our local high school working with kids with significant disabilities (I didn’t see that coming) but they fill me to overflowing with daily hugs and ‘I love you’s.’ He knew the desires of my heart when they were not yet known to me, and they became mine, in Him. It took me a few years to ‘unburden,’ but He has been with me every step, every way, every day. Peace be still. He is so worth the wait. I don’t even know when I stopped focusing on the ‘what’s missing,’ and realized I’m happy. I’m content in where ‘my husband’ has me💘
goingupsoonPrayers: 20097Requests: 1132
December 27, 2022 at 12:13 pmThank you mrsmeachum55 for bringing your prayer need to the DAB prayer wall. And for giving all of us the opportunity of praying with you, and for you. I am in agreement with the family about the need for you to wait before making any decisions that you may come to later regret. I’m a man and can only approach this from the viewpoint of a man. I’m also a father, and if you were my daughter, I would want to council you as a father would who wants to protect his daughter at all costs from being hurt any further. Too, I’m also old school I guess you could say. I tend to believe that old saying of, “If it sounds to good to be true, BEWHERE! Because it probably isn’t true.”
After praying, what resonates with me also, is God’s instruction and warning, that He gives in the book of (PROVERBS 4:23), — “Watch over your heart with all diligence, For from it flow the springs of life.” I sense the Holy Spirit saying “PROCEED WITH CAUTION!”
Also, mrsmeachum55, God speaks to this issue of waiting on His perfect timing in (Isaiah 40:31), — “But they who wait for the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles’; they shall run and not be weary; they shall walk and not faint.” Waiting on God’s timing, and for His perfect plan to be revealed, — for what’s it’s worth, is what l perceive the LORD is saying to you in this season.
I pray I am hearing the heart of the Father. Coming from the position of a father myself, If you were my daughter, I wouldn’t want you to be hurt any more. Please for your own sake, use wisdom, and “PROCEED WITH CAUTION!” And wait on the LORD’S perfect timing…Praying in the marvelous, and matchless name of our LORD and Savior,
JESUS CHRIST the MESSIAH, the “Anointed One”. Amen! ✝💓 -
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