1 Peter 3

Wives, respect and obey your husbands in the same way. Then the husbands who do not obey the word of God will want to know God. They will want to know God because their wives live good lives, even though they say nothing about God.

2 They will see that you live holy lives and respect your husbands.

3 You should not be fine on the outside only. Some women make their hair nice. They wear gold things. They have fine clothes.

4 But you must be fine in your heart. Have a heart that is gentle and quiet. That will not wear out. And God thinks it is worth very much.

5 There were holy women long ago who trusted in God. They made themselves nice in this way. They obeyed their husbands.

6 Sarah obeyed Abraham. She called him her master. You are her children if you do what is right and are not afraid of trouble.

7 Husbands, also live with your wife the way you know is right. Respect her because she is a woman. She is not as strong as a man. Also respect her because God has given her, as well as you, the blessing of life. In this way, you will not stop God from doing what you ask him to do.

Father we thank you for your word, I pray for love from the husband as your son Jesus Christ so loves the church and respect from this wife to her husband, that she may submit to him as she submits to you Father. Lord bless them, let them know that the Father sees them as one flesh, just as we see Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit and God as one. I pray that they open their eyes to each other again, allow them to see their trespasses and allow forgiveness into there hearts, just as Jesus forgives us of all our sins. I pray this in the name of Jesus. Amen.

How’it going? Any report on movement in the situation? Wow I’m going through the same thing, I’ll be honest this sucks. I’m also praying for you, our anniversary is coming soon and sleeping in different rooms doesn’t help. What I should say on that day. I’m battling the lonely demons (Lust Anger, Jealousy) my dream’s at times trouble me also. So I feel you sis, keep you head up. There has to be an end to our pain. Testing bring’s forth power. Most definitely we’re learning something. Power Peace and Love, in Jesus name.

the word of God is a perfect place to start. We don’t always know the true circumstances as each one is different. Nor do we know their spiritual walk with the Lord. I’ve always found that just plan loving on others with no condemnation or pointing fingers helps. Just being there when no one else is. The above scriptures are great but for those who don’t read the bible or live it, it can be a hard thing to swallow. It’s for the mature believer.
It’s a difficult walk when there’s division between a husband and a wife. Yes, the best thing a person can do is to direct their energies toward the Lord and let him direct them and not let their emotions get in the way. I found in my life that too many people start out by telling me what I’m doing wrong, and start pointing the finger at me without actually knowing the real truth. My prayer is that this couple will make it if “both” want it to work. Just one wanting this, and the other not wanting things to work out will not work. God will never violate our choices. God bless.