My mom recently passed and my marriage is failing
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tquall01Prayers: 2Requests: 2
September 8, 2023 at 12:25 amI’m sorry, long post!
Please pray for me, my marriage, and family. My mom went Home to be with the Lord 12 days ago 😭 She had a rough 3 year battle with rectal cancer. It took her life at the age of 69. My heart is broken. I miss her terribly.
My husband and I moved in with my mom to help her, even before her diagnosis (God knew). My mom was a champion! She never complained. She had a great attitude the entire time. She kept us laughing all the way until the end. I pray I can be as graceful as her. My 26 & 25 year old children helped me care for my mom around the clock for the last 17 days of her life. It was such a bittersweet time. We are bonded together in ways that are so special. It’s those promises of good in the bad that God tells us in His Words.
Ok, so now my marriage. I think I must leave him. I’m being emotionally abused. He has not been very supportive during this time. He’s been treating me very poorly for the past 1.5 years. It’s overwhelming and happens every day. I’m worn out. I know God is for marriages, but He’s not for abuse. He does not desire to be a proper leader, nor does he seem interested in taking care of me. He’s quite mean. I’m hurt. I live in groundhogs day, the same thing day after day. I’m on disability and I think he hates me for needing to be taken care of. He is in recovery. He’s been sober 3 years. The years prior to that were filled with lies, stealing, jail, prison, and all kinds of other terrible things. I waited for my knight in shining armor to get sober, only to be treated worse!
I believe God has given me an out. My daughter and her fiance have invited me to live with them. I have 3 young adults that are from my first marriage. They all want me to go. Before my mom passed she told the kids over and over to take care of me. She was so worried I will take the abuse for the rest of my life. My daughter and her fiance have been really kind in including me in looking for a new home. They seem far more willing to care for me than my husband.
I know this was long!
I’m anxious, I’m depressed. I’m scared of my husband. Please pray that God will give me wisdom in my decision. Please pray for my grieving heart. My children’s grieving hearts.
I do believe God can change my husband, but my husband has to give into Gods will instead of his own.
Thank you!GCOGAPrayers: 16712Requests: 1272
September 8, 2023 at 10:49 amMy dearly Beloved tquall01, First; accept my sincere condolences on your Mom”s passing. May the lord of peace comfort and give you strength. May the memories that you both shared give you courage and comfort. I am sorry you have to deal with all of these emotional issues with your husband. I say Amen to your prayers. May God give you wisdom and discernment to know the right steps to take to bring an effective end to the abuse. I pray that your husband can find a godly man to counsel him and walk him to the lord. I also pray that he will seek forgiveness and repentance for all the wrongs he has done to you. I thank God that you have children who care and include you in their plans. While it is important for you to seek Godly wisdom; guidance and encouragement, please let God lead you aright. I pray for your peace and comfort moving forward. May you continue to enjoy Peace in Gods Presence in Jesus mighty and holy name. ✨🙏
spiritdoc1Prayers: 40292Requests: 2395
September 8, 2023 at 1:45 pmBeloved tquall01; May God comfort you and your family. Yes, you are so right to say, that GOD is for marriages, but not the abuse. May you be guided, given wisdom, to make the right decision. God bless you and yours. Sending much love. 🙏🏻❤️🕊
FaVoRedOnePrayers: 627Requests: 43
September 8, 2023 at 3:34 pmPRAYING FOR GOD’S PEACE COMFORT AND STRENGTH FOR YOU ON THE LOSS OF YOUR MOTHER. MAY THE LORD RESTORE YOUR MARRIAGE AND SEND HELPERS TO HELP COUNSEL AND GUIDE YOU. PRAYING FOR YOUR PEACE AND REST IJN. AMEN
bodhi02Prayers: 1928Requests: 1060
September 9, 2023 at 1:43 amPrayers for peace and comfort in all of your lives as you mourn the passing of your mom and that you be delivered from any oppression or abuse of any kind and that your husband feels the presence of the Holy Spirit in his life and it gives him compassion and guidance in how his family needs to be loved and cared for. In Jesus name amen
pattysyellowbusPrayers: 5724Requests: 53
September 9, 2023 at 7:12 amOur dear, dear tquall01 – How the Father loves You! We weep with you at the passing of your mom and are so very grateful for her example of love and devotion. Praising Him for the gift of connecting and creating new bonds with your children through a time of severe trial. What a blessing He is! Lord Jesus, we ask that You touch the heart of tquall01’s husband. We ask that he be repent of wrong thinking and especially self-centered living. Guide him, Holy Spirit, to see and believe that You are the center of all things. Heal him of his wounds and allow him to become a balm to his own family. We believe that You can do this by the Power of Your Mighty Arm. In the Name of Jesus!
Hands to HeavenPrayers: 2628Requests: 21
September 9, 2023 at 5:27 pm🙏🏻
SaraSTLPrayers: 1032Requests: 19
September 9, 2023 at 7:43 pmLord God, thank You for tquall01. Thank You that she was a faithful servant for her mother. Thank You that she has supportive children. Father, give her Your divine peace and strength. Help her to make decisions with wisdom and discernment. Comfort her, reveal Yourself to her so that she knows You are always near. Give her revelation knowledge. In Jesus Name Amen.
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