Please pray. I have reason to believe my wife of 15 years is having an affair…
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dmchintransactionsPrayers: 2Requests: 1
February 3, 2017 at 5:08 amToday I came across a bunch of incriminating photos of my wife and another guy on Facebook. Even if they’ve not had a physical affair, they’re having an emotional one. I am beyond devastated but now everything makes sense. Why has my wife been so cold towards me? Why has she not responded to any of my efforts to reconcile? Because she is seeing someone else, or so it appears. Why does she look only at my faults and interpret everything I do and say in the worst possible way? Because she is trying to justify their relationship.
I don’t know what to do, but I do know I need your prayers as I seek God’s grace, guidance & direction in the midst of this storm.
Thank you in advance.
Blessings,
DerekcadalowePrayers: 5Requests: 0
February 3, 2017 at 6:49 amPraying with you.
soundyaaPrayers: 3085Requests: 12
February 3, 2017 at 1:01 pmI am praying that God touches her life so that she can honour you. I pray for your direction and knowing what to do and the way forward, about the best way to interact and in knowing what to say in a gentle but firm way. God bless you Derek.
momwhopraysPrayers: 13Requests: 0
February 3, 2017 at 2:11 pmPrayers over this whole situation, brother. May God open her eyes to what the enemy is doing. She will see how wrong it is but often it can be too late. I have been where she is and it has been the biggest regret of my life. Although it’s been over 22 years, it still burdens my heart. , Prayers for you both!
jtylerk9Prayers: 1512Requests: 7
February 3, 2017 at 7:42 pmI can’t imagine what your going through Derek. I am praying for you brother
SheilaTPrayers: 2920Requests: 24
February 6, 2017 at 1:15 pmMy Brother Derek,
I am terribly sorry for what you are going through. What is happening in your relationship is extremely painful because you love your wife and she belongs to you and not any other man.
We have an enemy whose aim is to destroy marriages and we as God’s children have to take back what belongs to us.
Here is my suggestion:
1. Pray to God for WISDOM as you face this situation that may seem like a mountain right now.2..Be gracious to your wife and don’t be confrontational – she will open up easily when you talk with grace .
3. Admit to her that as a husband you have your faults … when you do this , there is a part of her that you will definitely touch. ( let her know that you have NOT always been the perfect husband BUT you know that God is working in you right now to make you a better husband)
4. You pay EVIL with Good- Now ask your wife , ” What can I do to make things right?” ( so far you have not even got to the issue of her being involved with someone else)
5. Next ask her ,” Is there anything that you would like for me to know ? ( look at her directly – GOD will give you Grace) I am your husband and partner in this life so please don’t hide anything from me,”.From this point on I believe that the Lord will let her open up, God will give you the right words to use through his Grace. I am praying that the power of the Holy spirit will move and your wife will let everything out. I ask that you be calm and know that God wants your marriage to work. Be sure to forgive yourself for your past mistakes and now be sure to forgive your wife as we all have sinned and fall short of God’s glory.
The healing of your relationship and trust might not happen right away BUT if you let Grace flow through you towards your wife , I can almost guarantee you that all will be well.
We have a redeeming God who is in the BUSINESS of restoring marriages. He did it for me , why can’t HE do it for you?
Stay strong my brother and don’t forget to put on the full armor of God daily( Ephesians 6:10-18)
mt1214Prayers: 17Requests: 2
February 6, 2017 at 1:54 pmDerek…My heart goes out to you..I am agreeing with the above in prayer for you. God is FAITHFUL.. Many blessings to you, Derek!
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