Unbeliever “Crush”
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katelynsavage52Prayers: 1Requests: 2
June 3, 2023 at 9:02 amI somehow have fallen for an unbeliever. All of the Christian guys I’ve dated, there is just so much politics to it and pressure and expectation- it makes me so horribly anxious and physically sick because it feels so forced and check boxy. It was just so natural easy and fun with this other guy, my super hot unbelieving friend. We laugh our heads off all the time and ngl we flirt just a little. He knows I’m a Christian, we talk about the Bible and respectfully and calmly debate. He doesn’t judge me he typically asks questions but himself says it just sounds crazy. He is probably one of the godliest unbelievers Ive ever met (you know what I mean) and he is really interested in me and the Lord knows how much I like him. There’s this spark and connection we are both curious about. We feel like we are cut from the same cloth and are just connected in this interesting way. But it doesn’t matter. He’s an unbeliever and is off the table. It’s just so hard because I want romance with ease and it’s so frustrating that I’ve been praying for a spouse for years and the one guy that shows up that I’m actually attracted to that feels so natural and light, isn’t an option. Please pray that I would trust God and not be bitter. Please pray that God would save him. Please pray to God to grant me the strength to do His will and die to self. I’m really distressed about it. Sending out a flare
gibsontown7Prayers: 15Requests: 5
June 3, 2023 at 9:46 amPraying here right now dear sister 💕 Crushes are emotional – kudos for recognizing temptation (which we ALL are subject to) and choosing to deal with it wisely. God blesses obedience. You are choosing the better thing! Focus on growing closer to God, continue in his word daily, and trust his plan for you Ps 139. I’m in my 60s and have been right where you are. I had to guard my heart by keeping boundaries such as not flirting or engaging with men, but treating them as brothers. A godly marriage without regrets is worth waiting for. Feelings come and go and they cannot be trusted. You are choosing the best, though it’s hard right now 💕🙏 Remember – God cares about the details and blesses those who diligently seek him! He desires you to have a great marriage. Wait on him 🙏
cinbahhPrayers: 5504Requests: 78
June 3, 2023 at 10:49 amI join in these prayers for strength and discernment and I pray that you receive patience while you wait and that you will receive joy for being a child of God as your identity.
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