Update -Marriage hopeless after affair
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LisasalanPrayers: 53Requests: 5
October 15, 2020 at 6:19 amDear DAB friends,
I have read your prayers over & over. I’m so grateful for your support during this nightmare. I copied all your prayers into an email to myself & I re-read them when I start falling apart again.Thank you, oh God, for this DAB community! They are my family, my brother’s & sisters in Christ, who are weeping with me & encouraging me with Your words when I am hopeless.
My DAB family, your prayers this Week strengthened me so that I could be honest with my husband about my pain & fears.
Your prayers also helped revive his heart, to show compassion to me & open up a bit & not be defensive. I’m starting to feel he doesn’t hate me. And I saw his pain & deep remorse. He is suffering, too.
Please pray God would somehow undo all this torment, & shock for us all. Yesterday I again was consumed by constant anxiety & fear & sadness. Every week this happens, like I’m going insane.
I struggle too often over why God didn’t protect me (us all) but instead allowed my mother in law to insist on inviting a “strange woman” nurse from her rehab into our home at a time when our family was already in deep chaos, trying to recover & clean up after a fire & having to care for her, a very ill & controlling, difficult mother-in-law (she passed away after the affair.)
I don’t understand how God let this satan’s servant through my front door, to try to destroy me, my dear daughter, my husband & my marriage.
I want to pursue an criminal investigation against the nurse but am paralyzed by everything. I want her punished for all the evil & suffering & pain she caused all three of us. Please, please pray I could daily hand her over to God’s hands, to His Justice & vengeance.
Please pray for my poor daughters pain! I think she saw my journal writing yesterday that begged God to take me home. I can tell her heart is in torment, too. Please, please, please pray for my poor daughter!! She’s an innocent girl in this whole evil, mess!
Please pray for my husband ( I think he is in shock, too) who is trying to make things “normal” as he keeps working from home in an extremely stressful job ( 4 years of an abusive, humiliating boss). He is trying so hard to find a way to get us all far away from here – out of his mother’s house & this area, but trapped by a tidal wave of stuff & bills & so much to deal with after her recent death.
Please continue to pray my husband would turn fully to God for everything, asking & seeking diligently for godly wisdom. My husband introduced me to DAB podcasts.
Please pray I could trust God for making beauty for ashes & turning all our family’s sorrow into joy, & our deep mourning into dancing, & restore the years lost to the locust!
Please God, let us behold Your mighty works on our behalf as You do a new thing for our family & for so many in the DAB community who are suffering! Help us all not remember the former things! Please make pathways in the wilderness & streams in the desert for us all!
Please God you are our only hope! Help us trust in You with all our hearts!
In Jesus’s precious name, amen.LisasalanPrayers: 53Requests: 5
October 15, 2020 at 11:00 amPlease forgive me & ignore me for posting this. I haven’t slept well & let fear rule me rather than God’s strength & love.
This was too much info. I’m so sorry. Thank you all.goingupsoonPrayers: 20097Requests: 1132
October 15, 2020 at 2:47 pmFather, You are faithful. You always watch over Your children. We at times, can’t see what You are doing. That’s why you commanded us to walk by faith. But it’s difficult when the storms of life are raging. We want to trust You to see us through our troubles. But, a lot of the time, we are like Your disciples in the boat, who are fearful. Help us to never doubt that Your with us in the boat, and that you will get us to the other side of the lake. Let us remember, that it was the enemy who caused the storm, and not You. He was attempting to stop them from getting to the other side. Because, he knew that a great deliverance was going to take place when the man who lived in, and among the tombs. would be set free. And Satan would lose his hold on, not only the man, but an entire community of people who were being kept in fear, because of the man being possessed by the devil. Your ways are not ours Lord. Help Lisa to wholy trust You in, and for everything in her life. You will get her, and her family to the other side.
2. When thou passeth through the waters, I will be with thee; And through the rivers, they shall not
overflow thee; When thou walkest through the fire, thou shalt not be burned; Neither shall the flame
kindle upon thee. Isa. 43:2.22. Cast your burden on the Lord, and He will sustain you; He will never allow the righteous to be shaken. Psa. 55″22.
In Jesus name. Amen!
Beloved💓LisasalanPrayers: 53Requests: 5
October 15, 2020 at 4:32 pmThank you so very much goingupsoon. I have been so blinded by my fear of losing my husband that I forgot God is working something great thru this storm. It has been so horribly painful but today, sometime after your prayer & wisdom for me, I felt my sorrow & depression lift tremendously.
This morning I felt again like death was the only relief from the pain. But now, I feel set free from it & hope filled, like I can trust God again.
Thank you goingupsoon. God bless you.
countingonjesusPrayers: 1028Requests: 28
October 16, 2020 at 3:31 amDear Lisa you should not ever worry about posting about your pain and suffering. We are all your sisters and brothers and we want to support you. This is a very difficult season to go through and one can only make it with God’s help. Dear God we lift Lisa into your most capable hands and pray that she will continue to trust you despite all those negative voices in her head. God help her heal! We pray for her daughter who is also going through this difficult situation and we also pray for her husband who is repentant and needs forgiveness. You who fixes all that is broken fix these your children and give them your peace. It’s in Jesus’s name we ask this. Amen🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
goingupsoonPrayers: 20097Requests: 1132
October 16, 2020 at 12:35 pmContinued prayers for You my sister. I was blessed to read how wonderfully our Lord, helped you just the other day. It was the Holy Spirits prayer that I prayed for you i must say, He gets all the glory! He just knows what words will minister to a particular persons need. What a wonderful Lord we serve. I personally have been through so many storms in my life, i wouldn’t know where to begin. But though them all, His ever abiding Spirit was with me, and He always made a way, and brought me through to the other side. Remember as countingonjesus so rightly spoke above. We are here for you. i am so encouraged daily, by how the Lord uses the prayers of the DAB family to answer so many peoples prayers, and desperate needs. I pray, that the good lord will constantly draw you to the rock that is higher than i. It’s only in Him, that we will find refuge in the storms of life. He is faithful to get us to the other side. But, more importantly, He will bring us into the place of still waters, and safe harbor, in our hearts, and souls, while in the midst of the storm. If we’ll learn to rest in Him.
Praying that you find the place of safe refuge.
Blessings in His name!
Beloved💓LisasalanPrayers: 53Requests: 5
October 16, 2020 at 6:59 pmDear Counting on Jesus, I am so grateful for your graciousness! I was condemned right after everything was exposed, by 3 Christian women, for not being stronger & for sharing too much. I have been trying hard to take everything to God on my own until I couldn’t do it anymore & finally asked for prayer from the DAB community a week ago.
So, I began to cry when I read how kind you (& everyone) are to me.
The shame & pain have been often unbearable ( feeling like only death will bring relief & joy) but the prayers of my DAB sisters & brothers have pulled me up from the miry pit when I slip back in the memories or relive seeing her in our home. Thank you so much for your prayers for each of us. My husband is having his eyes slowly opened & I can see my daughter’s heart is so much happier since these prayers from you & goingupsoon.I notice that each time we are prayed for by the DAB community, I see good changes for all of us.
If anyone reads this, God Bless You for your love & kindness & compassion towards me. I look forward to meeting you in heaven.
LisacountingonjesusPrayers: 1028Requests: 28
October 16, 2020 at 10:32 pmDearest Lisa know that you are not alone in all of this. You will always be in our prayers!! We love you in Jesus name!❤❤❤🙏🙏
dbelovedPrayers: 2Requests: 1
October 18, 2020 at 6:13 amHey Lisa,
Use these two songs for strength and support:
Tell Me Where It Hurts – Fred Hammond
Trust in You – Anthony BrownSo, speak peace, love, hope, kindness, gentleness to him. Honor him. If you are angry about an affair, have you tried to change the story by having an affair with him? Yes, why are you husband and wife. Stop giving the chance to Devil as if you are the strange woman. You are The Wife and you have all the access to him. Yes, go have an affair with him. Take him out. Organize an inexpensive getaway with him. Be sensual with him. Show him desire. Listen to him and spend quantity time with him. Remind him of your past glory days. Tell him he should look at a new bride in you. Make him eye you, desire you, long for you etc. STOP creating apathy with him (the more you do that, the more Devil wins).
God has forgiven him – Rm. 5:8 “But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.”. So what are you waiting for. Forgive him and move on dear sister.
Bless your heart.
JohnpattysyellowbusPrayers: 5724Requests: 54
October 18, 2020 at 6:26 amAbba Father! How You love dear dear Lisa! Joining with the family to pray hard for this dear one going through deep waters. Fill her Holy Spirit to overflowing!! Do not allow fear to envelope her, cast it away, replace it by faith in You that You will never leave her nor forsake her. Allow her to see into the Kingdom that she is beautiful in Your sight. The things we see with our eyes are not what is truly real. Allow her to be vulnerable to those she can trust . . . it is in this vulnerability that separates us to You. Strengthen Lisa in her inner man to discern what is right and true — and let the rest be burned away as chaff. O Lord, restore this husband to Yourself – allow him to repent and hear Your Word. Allow him to focus on what is truly important and see that the things of this life will be added as he turns fully to You.
O Father, we call upon Your mercy for this dear daughter who has been torn apart. Holy Spirit, fill her up to overflowing, soften her bruised heart and make her whole. Give her determination to know You and seek Your face. Use this trauma for Your glory O Lord — as only You can –Make all things new!! Praise Your Name! -
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