I am engaged to be married on April 7th and our relationship is getting attacked so badly. In our hearts we want to be a marriage used by God for His will and His glory but I am having second thoughts because all of a sudden my fiancee is mean. He has never been mean to me before so i feel so confused. I need guidance, wisdom and confirmation from the Lord because I don’t want to be out of His will.
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February 12, 2019 at 11:57 am
Dear One – You have turned to the right place in this stressful time. The enemy can do so many things to distract us from doing God’s will. However, being mean is never acceptable under any circumstance. Personally, I would delay the wedding until your fiancee’ can get his anger under control, stop being mean, and start communicating with you about what is troubling him – and does so for a minimum of 6 months before setting another wedding date. This engagement time is usually when you see brides and grooms on their best behavior, sweet, loving, patient. He’s not doing this. And it’s likely that his attitude will degrade over time unless he gets some professional help to deal with it. Praying you two take a step back and work on this now so you don’t go into marriage and have more, or worse happen as the years go on.
Father, give this bride some of Your wisdom about what’s going on and what her response should be at this time. Help her groom to sort out why he is being mean, get help for that, so they can move forward.
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