Prayers for me and this broken marriage
Cat from 'the Hat'Prayers: 5Requests: 0
April 22, 2017 at 2:36 pm
Uriah, I have just read the latest posts from others and yourself and see that you are still trying to honour God. This is something so necessary, even when you don’t immediately see the benefits. I gather that you do not work for an employer who provides a benefit program that assists in the costs associated with seeing a professional counselor? Obviously, that would be SO helpful as, were it not for being in a union that has fought for these things, I would also not be able to afford a professional. A Christian counselor/psychologist/therapist would be best but God can also work through anyone. Please just be prayerful about it.
Does your church have the means to help you out financially or have someone on staff specialized in marriage counseling?
You also mention that you hope you “don’t mess up again”; is this really the case or are you just blaming yourself unnecessarily? We all need wisdom and, so often, this sometimes all I can ask of God because I just don’t know what else to do. Personally, I have been so lost in direction because my fiancé’s 12 year old daughter has been inflicting self-injury to herself and, although I love her so much, I am dumbfounded as to how to combat this on her behalf. Many who know her/us are praying but – so far – she is still struggling with it as it has becaome an addiction. “Cutting” is , apparently, a type of fad amongst kids these days to punish themselves for whatever they feel is a burden upon their shoulders and this is true for this sweet, intelligent girl. Anyway, I guess all I am trying to say is to keep praying and resisting the attacks of Satan with God’s word. He will uphold you and I continue to pray for your strength in your struggle! Please know that we love you and admire your willingness to ask for help. God will be gracious!uriah.k.leePrayers: 42Requests: 8
April 24, 2017 at 1:11 am
Thought everything was going good. She said she’s going to Walmart to take back a shirt. I text and called and called no answer. So I went to Walmart to check for myself and she was not there. So I called and called then she finally answered. I ask where she was she lied and said Walmart I said no you not I went there she said she went to go get more pills. She said she don’t know how to deal with her feelings. Dang I don’t know what to do now. This sucksaudriesblake667Prayers: 32Requests: 12
April 24, 2017 at 1:58 am
Praying, for all that God wants to do in your life, your wife’s life and this whole situation. He is a God who supplies all of our needs, according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus, including healing, help, wholeness. AND, He will give you the gift of forgiveness for your wife, especially for those times when you find yourself questioning, and will be a shield for you as well.uriah.k.leePrayers: 42Requests: 8
April 24, 2017 at 2:43 am
This is not working. Prayers and what I’m doing is not working out. She straight up told me she don’t want to be with me. She just wants to be here with the kids. I’m about to give upuriah.k.leePrayers: 42Requests: 8
April 24, 2017 at 2:56 am
My son heard us. Now he’s all mad I told him everything will be ok. I said if I move out he’s coming with me. He said I sure will. Idk what to do I called my pastor and told him to pray for mesoundyaaPrayers: 3085Requests: 12
April 24, 2017 at 7:52 am
Dear Brother Uriah,
This week is our marriage prayer week, I am fasting each day where I can and praying into all of this. Please seek your Pastors council before you make any decisions – I will pray his words are Gods words. I pray that you are able to have the patience to stay for even just for this week because there is a lot praying and begging God for change. I pray there is some peace for you and I pray your wife can see how great your heart is and turn to God. She has a choice in all of this, I pray you are able to say it is your choice, but I will stand with my God given family.
God bless you this day, on my knees for you asking abba father help this man and his family. In Jesus name. Amen.SheilaTPrayers: 2916Requests: 24
April 24, 2017 at 1:40 pm
Our battles are not against flesh and blood but against Satan and his evil forces. My brother, prayers may seem not to work because you really do not see what is happening in the spiritual realm, so I ask that no matter how bad it seems you do not accept what the enemy is saying! He is a LIAR and I sure hate him!
We are praying for marriages this week and for any marriage , let it be GOD that makes the decision on the path forward. We shall NOT let Satan have the last word , I refuse to accept that. So brother as you face whatever it is you are facing say ” Lord Jesus have your way in this”
Don’t let the enemy laugh at you! The Battle belongs to God so He will be the judge. Your wife has a will and oh how I pray that she does repent! Oh how she has been blinded by the enemy to believe his lie. May God set her free indeed before it is too late.
Brother cry to God and don’t give up. If your wife chooses to leave , let it be her that made that choice and not you. You must stand for your family and let God be judge over what will happen. Do not walk out please .
I ask that God sends his angels to wage war against the evil in your house. Please put on God full armor daily and don’t ever believe the lie of the enemy telling you that prayers are not working – in so doing that makes you believe that Jesus was a liar when he asked us to pray.soundyaaPrayers: 3085Requests: 12
April 24, 2017 at 2:19 pm
Amen Sister Shelia – the first sentence you had I had separately. Our battles are not with flesh and blood. This is from Ephesians 6:12 which says:
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high place.
Believe this I pray. In Jesus name.jtylerk9Prayers: 1512Requests: 7
April 24, 2017 at 4:37 pm
Continuing with prayers Uriahuriah.k.leePrayers: 42Requests: 8
April 24, 2017 at 5:54 pm
This sucks. Isn’t it supposed to be the other way around. The wives should complain about their husbands but its me a man complaining about my wife. lol she texting me today like everything is all good. I can’t tell with her. Thank you for the prayers.SheilaTPrayers: 2916Requests: 24
April 24, 2017 at 6:03 pm
We won’t stop praying for you Uriah ! You hold tight 🙂
We have a living God and yes I agree rarely do we hear husbands calling about their wives but as you know we have an enemy that wants to shift marriages BUT God will raise up a Standard against him!
Keep praying, it’s not over yet !uriah.k.leePrayers: 42Requests: 8
April 24, 2017 at 6:17 pm
Thank you Sheila for your words and continued prayers. I really appreciate it. You are awesome I’m praying still and listening to the daily audio bible. I told my pastor everything and he will pray for me. I told him I’ll talk to him today sometimessoundyaaPrayers: 3085Requests: 12
April 27, 2017 at 8:14 pm
Hope and pray that your pastor was able to give you God filled words. Praying for some joy in the coming week for your family. God bless. In Jesus name.uriah.k.leePrayers: 42Requests: 8
May 3, 2017 at 10:12 pm
Still fighting and now she says she wants to separate or divorce all because I said I’ll take the girls to practice she gets mad I’ve been praying about it and I think it’s time to let go I don’t want to and she compares me to the dude she messed with this is what she text me
And honestly that’s the thing I miss about being friends with Mike…he would always ask how I’m feeling today and if there was anything he can do to make it better…even if it was just a stupid joke or meme to make me laugh…WHY can’t you be that way with me?!? Why is it so hard for you to be that way with me?!?! Am I not worth the extra effort?!
I’m not gonna be something I’m not I’ve been trying to give her what she wants and it’s not enough. I ask if we can go see a dr about her depression and idk why she depressed maybe cause she got busted and now has to be home with us. I ask her where she’s going and she get mad. I guess cause she being convicted of sin and she get mad
So I think this is it. I’m not gonna cry about it I’ll let her go and keep my faith in the lord she said she’s will get her stuff and find a place to stay then she text saying she will be home to make dinner. Idk what’s going on I talk to my pastor he said keep the faith and don’t do anything crazysoundyaaPrayers: 3085Requests: 12
May 4, 2017 at 5:51 am
Really sorry to hear this. Yes I pray that you keep the faith with God at all cost and he will bless you. As it says the first law is love your God with all your heart soul and mind. I pray despite her rejection of you and God that you have the strength and ability to keep showing your wife and telling her that you love her and forgive her. It is her choice and if she insists on going I pray that in her time away that she would think about the good times with the family that you are a family unit and I pray she would come to understand the need and value for a relationship with our God. I will keep praying for a break through.
Brother you have been a Godly man in this situation, doing what most could not. May God bless your faithfulness. In Jesus name. Amen.soundyaaPrayers: 3085Requests: 12
May 4, 2017 at 8:34 pm
Praying tonight for your wife that she would sense and know the love you have for her and understand the need for you to be a family. I pray she knows that in her spirit deep down. I pray her heart would pull her back to your family. In Jesus name.SheilaTPrayers: 2916Requests: 24
May 4, 2017 at 10:32 pm
Amen brother Andy!
My heart goes out to my brother Uriah. What is sad here is that your wife doesn’t realize that she is chained literally by the enemy. She is so blinded by the enemy that she does not realize it. You need to understand that someone in a normal state of mind would NOT do this , so we ask the Lord to open her eyes. We ask that by the power of the Holy spirit, the Lord will convict your wife and lead her to repentance.
I pray that your wife will not harden her heart. Brother Uriah as a husband you have exceeded my expectations and all I can say is may God bless you. Know that if your wife decides to leave, it will be her that will have made the decision and not you . My prayer is that she reconsiders and returns back to her first love of God and you.
May God set her free from the lies of the enemy.
Amenuriah.k.leePrayers: 42Requests: 8
May 5, 2017 at 6:16 am
Man shiela and everyone. It got worst. She got busted yesterday she was with that dude and they were at the park and someone took pictures of them kissing in her car and outside her car. I ask where she was yesterday and she said driving around but nope. There’s pictures all over Facebook of them two kissing man this sucks. I put gun to head tonight. I’m staying strong for the kids. She’s in another room nowjmedero09Prayers: 14Requests: 3
May 5, 2017 at 6:46 am
lifting you up in prayer right now brother God be with you. Dont let the enemy destroy you. It might be an idea to get rid of that Gun for the time being.
You have a very special type of love sir and i pray you do not let the enemy destroy that. You and the love that you posses right now are very much need in this world.uriah.k.leePrayers: 42Requests: 8
May 5, 2017 at 6:52 am
My son took the gun. I keep praying I’m so hurt and heart broken. It sucks and hurts so bad why me why God. I want someone on fire for the lord.jmedero09Prayers: 14Requests: 3
May 5, 2017 at 7:02 am
Those answers may not be answered right away but God is faithful and fully capable of getting you through this and bringing you to something greater.
He is near to the broken-hearted so while you are hurt and in turmoil, he is right there beside you when you sat there with that Gun he sat beside you as well praying and interceding on your behalf. He is with you now brother. Your brothers and sisters are lifting you up from all over and if there is anything that we learned from getting through exodus is that when Gods people cry out he hears them and he sets forth an action. You may not see it now but there is action taking place by your heavenly father in your favoruriah.k.leePrayers: 42Requests: 8
May 5, 2017 at 7:36 am
Thanks I had her call that f head I told him to put a hit on me have me killed since he’s a biker Gang cartel itoldhim I hated him and praying for him. Told him I almost killed my self and I hope he can take my kids to practice and games do what I do. What’s really messed up is my daughter was asleep and she woke up and heard me talking to my son. She says I don’t like that guy daddy I don’t like mommy talking to him. I ask her about it and she said only happen one time I’ll keep praying help me Godjmedero09Prayers: 14Requests: 3
May 5, 2017 at 1:23 pm
Do you have any friends that you can spend time with some people at the church you can meet up with. Dont isolate yourself in this rough time we run this race together. Maybe even serve a little more at church if possible something that will allow you to keep your mind off things for s little and allow God you work things out for youSheilaTPrayers: 2916Requests: 24
May 5, 2017 at 1:56 pm
Please this is heartbreaking . Listen , we have an enemy and he is a LIAR! he wants to destroy you so please don’t fall into that trap. Is there a way you can connect with someone like a brother here at DAB and one from your church or even a family member? I need someone to be in contact with you please we cannot afford for anything bad to happen to you Uriah. Please reach out to someone , we need to know that you are safe.uriah.k.leePrayers: 42Requests: 8
May 5, 2017 at 3:54 pm
I talked to my pastor he gave me some good words and advice. I’m just listening to praise and worship music
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